Online Dating Vs. Dating Online
During the conversation Zan Perrion and I had for The Master Plan one of the most fascinating themes we discussed was how we as a modern culture are becoming more and more disconnected from each other.
One’s first thought when considering that idea is, “Hey, wait a minute. Everyone’s got an Internet connection and a […]
What Women REALLY Want: If You Think It’s MONEY, Read This…
OK, here is a letter from a woman that I felt particularly compelled to share. If you’ve just finished reading my latest newsletter, then this is the SECOND e-mail from a woman you’ve seen written in response to what we’re talking about in The Master Plan.
The message is clear, gentlemen. Women want their […]
Dealing With Breakups: When Nothing Particularly Heinous Has Happened [Part Two Of Four]
Ideally speaking, each of us should theoretically break up with everyone we ever date…except for one.
And as dark as it sounds, that’s actually a good thing.
I realize that reality isn’t always that uncomplicated, and believe me I have the track record to prove it. But I think you get my drift.
And here’s […]
Dealing With Breakups: When Something Heinous Has Happened [Part One Of Four]
I’ve been threatening to write this series for a while, but fortunately I didn’t need an ultimatum in order to stick to the plan.
Sounds like a metaphor for a bad relationship, right?
Well, whatever the case, here we go on a full-tilt four part series on breakups.
This is a topic that isn’t covered nearly often enough, […]
X & Y On The Fly #36 — How To Communicate With The Opposite Sex
Emily and I decided it was about time we did an episode on how men and women can not only learn how to decode what the other gender is saying, but actually speak to MOTOS (Members Of The Opposite Sex) in terms that they can actually understand.
First it was understanding MOTOS, now actually talking to […]
A Woman’ Point Of View On Flirting [Guest Blog]
Meet Terry MacDonald.
She’s a new friend of ours and like most “lady gurus” whom we consider to be our favorites, she is all about the dating success of both women AND men. Our list is a short one, and we really have no idea why that is.
But nonetheless, we think you’ll like what Terry […]
The Chick Whisperer #19–”What Do I Do Next?”
For the latest episode, I got the newest VIRTUOSITY co-conspirator, Cory Skyy, in on the game.
Cory’s ideas pretty much blow everyone away who takes time to listen to what he’s got to say. This is for good reason, since his approach to “natural game” is on a whole new level.
So what better guy to […]
More On “Reverse One-Itis” And Falling In Love Too Fast
If you receive the X & Y Communications newsletter, you just read my answer to a man who has a woman in his life who is expressing clear emotional attachment early on in the non-exclusive relationship.
If you don’t receive the X & Y Communications newsletter, that problem can be cured by using the form of […]
Hire Me As Your Dating Coach, Get Into A Top MBA Program
As you already know, our dating coaching style is VERY different.
We talk about excellence a lot. Not just with women, but in life. That’s exactly what character-based attraction and seduction is all about. [Note: To certain black-hat “bootcampers” who are bogarting my term lately, I challenge you to a debate […]
Click With Him Is Now OFFICIALLY RELEASED!
Five months in the making, Click With Him has finally been released to the world…specifically, to every sharp woman out there who refuses to settle for mediocrity when it comes to online dating.
And true to form, I’ve been awake since about eleven a.m. yesterday taking care of all the “background” details to make sure Emily’s […]























