10 Ways I Knew Emily Was “The One”

  Getting into a committed relationship is scary. As much as we hope the person we’re with is our “one and only”, everybody knows the reality of divorce rates. Even so, I remain appalled by how many people willingly jump like lemmings off a cliff into an exclusive relationship—or even marriage—with Mr. or Ms. Wrong. [...]

Top 10 Subtle Signs That Someone Lacks Character

  Anyone who is blatantly narcissistic or psychopathic, has a hair-trigger temper, gets their jollies from swindling people, lies even when the truth is easy and/or robs banks is obviously short on character. And on the flip side, people who have a well thought out belief system that’s the cornerstone of their lives, deliver on [...]

9 Ways You Ended Up In An Exclusive Relationship Without Even Knowing It

  As far as you were concerned, you’d met someone attractive and interesting and were simply “seeing where it all goes”. You wanted time to evaluate the possibility of an exclusive relationship. In your mind, going steady with someone implies testing the waters of a long-term committed partnership. You don’t take that lightly, which is [...]

How To Be Everyone’s Favorite Person…Instantly

  By now you’ve figured out that I don’t make unreasonable “easy button” claims. But here is one of those exceptionally rare truths that isn’t only going to add ridiculous, off-the-chain value to your life, it’s also as simple as flipping a switch: Be a man or a woman who does what you say you’re [...]

6 Incredibly Hot Things To Say When She Casually Brings Up Sex

  It’s such a shame, really. Sometime back in the pickup artist era it was decided that whenever women casually bring up sex during first date conversation—or friendly conversation, even—it must be some sort of “test”. The logic behind this assumption being that she’s evaluating how we deal with the “hot potato” she’s suddenly dropped [...]

8 Surefire Ways To Tell: Are You A Fun Person?

  Astonishingly, there’s very little on the web addressing the topic du jour. Mostly, it’s a few quiz sites asking pretty random questions that carry the personal assumptions of whoever authored them. There’s nothing really, well, helpful or definitive there. So then, given how absolutely crucial being fun is to the attraction process, let alone [...]

7 Women Who Are Probably Dateless (And Will Stay That Way)

  Whenever I set out to write a post like this, I’m tempted to lead with a disclaimer. This time I’m going to indulge. If you’re familiar with my writings, my general philosophies and especially the strength of my relationship with my wife Emily, you already know that I genuinely adore women. What you ALSO [...]

Will You Pass The “Interesting Test”?

  By now you know that a man who leads an interesting life replete with way cool and exhilarating activities stands a much better chance of attracting desirable women than a guy who spends most of his time on the couch watching the tube and eating Cheetos. This is much to the chagrin of probably [...]

Do Men Even Notice Women Anymore?

  [Ed. Note: This has obviously become an incendiary post, to the point of going viral. If you are a #MGTOW and wish to take me to task for having a happy, fulfilling relationship to a wonderful woman, I've already responded to similar comments more than enough times below. Please read this other post before [...]

My 8 Favorite Female TV Characters Of All Time

  First of all, some of you are going to roll your eyes and shake your head at this list. I’m actually looking forward to that, if for no other reason than it will prove the true point of this post (if there really is one). That’s this: All that really, seriously matters when it [...]

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