MeetUp.com As A Dating Site?
We get quite a number of e-mails from both men and women asking where in the world they can meet MOTOS (Members Of The Opposite Sex).
Some don’t exactly live in thriving metropolises. Most don’t feel comfortable approaching strangers in public, as much as we’d love to wave a magic wand and cure everyone’s “approach […]
Train Game
Many guys spend way too many hours every year catching public transport, trains, buses, subways, ferries, etc. I used to have a 45 minute train trip every day to get to work, and 45 minutes on the train getting home.
That’s a lot of time.
On many of my trips I would […]
Online Dating: Loaded Down With Questions [Video]
OK, here’s yet another video blog for you, loaded down with online dating tips just for you.
And appropriately as such, this particular video considers what to do when someone you’ve just met starts loading you down with questions….
So tell me, I bet you can relate to this one, can’t you? Let’s hear […]
X & Y On The Fly #36 — How To Communicate With The Opposite Sex
Emily and I decided it was about time we did an episode on how men and women can not only learn how to decode what the other gender is saying, but actually speak to MOTOS (Members Of The Opposite Sex) in terms that they can actually understand.
First it was understanding MOTOS, now actually talking to […]
A Woman’ Point Of View On Flirting [Guest Blog]
Meet Terry MacDonald.
She’s a new friend of ours and like most “lady gurus” whom we consider to be our favorites, she is all about the dating success of both women AND men. Our list is a short one, and we really have no idea why that is.
But nonetheless, we think you’ll like what Terry […]
Online Dating: The Case For Instant Messaging
Some guys believe that instant messaging is to be avoided at all costs when beginning to talk to women we meet online.
I understand that sentiment to some degree, based on the logic that it’s always a good idea to get women from e-mail to phone–and then to first meeting–as soon as possible.
Apart from that, a […]
More On “Reverse One-Itis” And Falling In Love Too Fast
If you receive the X & Y Communications newsletter, you just read my answer to a man who has a woman in his life who is expressing clear emotional attachment early on in the non-exclusive relationship.
If you don’t receive the X & Y Communications newsletter, that problem can be cured by using the form of […]
Click With Him Is Now OFFICIALLY RELEASED!
Five months in the making, Click With Him has finally been released to the world…specifically, to every sharp woman out there who refuses to settle for mediocrity when it comes to online dating.
And true to form, I’ve been awake since about eleven a.m. yesterday taking care of all the “background” details to make sure Emily’s […]
Emily’s New Click With Him Program Launches TOMORROW
That’s right, after literally MONTHS in the making, Emily’s new flagship program for women Click With Him is ready for release.
It will be five months to the day since VIRTUOSITY was released to men everywhere who refuse to “settle” for any woman who isn’t of the highest echelon on Earth.
Now, it’s finally time […]
Phone Game: Golden Input From A Woman
It’s no secret that we’ve been talking a lot about “phone game” around here recently.
Not only is the latest Power Session devoted to it, the latest X & Y Communications newsletter was also.
In that newsletter, we highlighted an e-mail question sent in by Brendan in California about finding the balance between calling a […]






















