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Personal Brand Identity
In the corporate world brand identity is very important as it makes a product more memorable. If we use Coca Cola as an example, they have a very recognisable brand.
They have their red swirly pattern all over everything.
All their bottles have it and all of their staff wear it (in some […]
Discomfort and Awareness: A Tale of Two Dates
Consider two separate dates with two different women:
Scenario 1: It was a gorgeous Wednesday before a long weekend. I awoke from a full night’s sleep ready to conquer the world by lunch, and cure cancer by dinner. And I did (almost), giving a very well-received client presentation and setting a personal best on the bench […]
The Chick Whisperer #22 — Shyness And Introversion
From the very beginning when we launched The Chick Whisperer show, we decided that there were several ways the show had to be unique, and therefore separate itself from the herd.
First, we were going to focus on being a man of character who therefore attracts only the HIGHEST ECHELON of women
Second, we were going to […]
Why Monogamy Isn’t An Option To Most Of The Seduction Community
Here’s a question I received via Facebook that really caught my attention. So much so that I’m sharing the Q&A with you here. By the way, if you’d like to “friend” me on facebook, my profile is here.
While we’re at it, if you’re on Twitter my username is “scotmckay“.
Here we go:
Hey […]
Do Women Really Bail Out Of Relationships With Guys They Like?
Those of you who receive the X & Y Communications Newsletter read earlier today about how it’s possible that a woman will bail out of a relationship with a guy even if he hasn’t done anything particularly wrong.
Basically, the premise is that if a woman is afraid of being hurt, or in someway […]
A Woman’ Point Of View On Flirting [Guest Blog]
Meet Terry MacDonald.
She’s a new friend of ours and like most “lady gurus” whom we consider to be our favorites, she is all about the dating success of both women AND men. Our list is a short one, and we really have no idea why that is.
But nonetheless, we think you’ll like what Terry […]
Online Dating: The Case For Instant Messaging
Some guys believe that instant messaging is to be avoided at all costs when beginning to talk to women we meet online.
I understand that sentiment to some degree, based on the logic that it’s always a good idea to get women from e-mail to phone–and then to first meeting–as soon as possible.
Apart from that, a […]
Hire Me As Your Dating Coach, Get Into A Top MBA Program
As you already know, our dating coaching style is VERY different.
We talk about excellence a lot. Not just with women, but in life. That’s exactly what character-based attraction and seduction is all about. [Note: To certain black-hat “bootcampers” who are bogarting my term lately, I challenge you to a debate […]
New And Improved: E-mails To The Highest Quality Women Online
In a previous post we considered the art of writing first e-mails to the very sharpest women online. In the case study I chose, the real-world group of targeted women in Los Angeles included actresses, models and even a former world-class gymnast.
Our hero, James, certainly had his work cut out for him. In […]






















