The Master Plan — You Already Are A “Natural”
Lately there’s been lots of talk about “natural game”…as if all we need to do is emulate a guy who we see as a “natural”, and we’ll somehow become more attractive to women.
Now sure, having some guys who are great with women show you the ropes isn’t such a bad idea. But do we […]
To Those Starting The Journey
“And the day came when the risk it took to remain tight inside the bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom.”
–Anais Nin
Congratulations on making a decision that will transform your life.
Seriously, congratulations. You may think “I haven’t done anything, I just got tired of spending Saturday nights playing Minesweeper/staring at […]
A Pickup Line Is No Longer A Pickup Line If SHE Started It
Lately I’ve been coaching more guys on how to succeed at online dating than ever before, and time and again I encounter something that amazes me.
I think we could all agree that using cheesy pickup lines are decidedly not the best strategy when it comes to approaching women. In fact, they’ve kind of become […]
Online Dating: Loaded Down With Questions [Video]
OK, here’s yet another video blog for you, loaded down with online dating tips just for you.
And appropriately as such, this particular video considers what to do when someone you’ve just met starts loading you down with questions….
So tell me, I bet you can relate to this one, can’t you? Let’s hear […]
The Team Has Been Expanded: Six New Instructors Named
I couldn’t be more pleased to bring you today’s major announcement.
The X & Y Communications team has been expanded to include six new instructors.
We have known for several months now that the character-based approach to dating and seduction advice was powerful enough and had gained enough traction that we wanted to bring more voices and […]
Hire Me As Your Dating Coach, Get Into A Top MBA Program
As you already know, our dating coaching style is VERY different.
We talk about excellence a lot. Not just with women, but in life. That’s exactly what character-based attraction and seduction is all about. [Note: To certain black-hat “bootcampers” who are bogarting my term lately, I challenge you to a debate […]






















