Why I Wake Up Excited In The Morning – The Official Blog Of Scot McKay

Having read the title of this post, I have a guess what you might be thinking. No, it’s not necessarily because Emily is in a frisky mood…again.

At least that’s not what I’m referring to this time.

Instead, I have a letter from a reader that I want to share with you. His name is Marcio, from Brasil.

Now I remember when Marcio first got Virtuosity and subscribed to Power Sessions. That was several months ago, and he told me he felt he had a long way to go with women.

Today, things are different for him. I’ll let his field report speak for itself:

Hi Scot,

How are you, my great friend? Even though I never met you, I consider you a very important person in my life. I really appreciate the opportunity of writing to you to talk about my successes and failures, the great things and the not so great things.

I feel that my life has changed. I can’t really explain, but I think I see the world on a new light. My beliefs have changed. I believe now that the world is a place of abundance, I am in the process of changing my old scarcity mentality.

I have been very busy with my dating life. Sometimes it was even causing some problems with my work. You know, when we have too much success we need sometime to adapt to a new situation.
[Ed. note: Some of you think that my mention of this sort of thing from time to time is hyperbole. It most definitely is not.]

I had a “long” term non exclusive relationship with a girl. Well, for me 5 months is a long time. She was a pretty, funny and sweet lady, unfortunately she couldn’t accept the kind of relationship I was offering. She wanted to be the only one.

I was always honest and told her from the beginning that it wasn’t exclusive. She was a little bit insecure and very jealous. Now I know that pretty women are even more insecure than guys.

The breakup wasn’t so difficult. I had other woman to go out with and it was much less painful than
other experiences.

I feel much more confortable in the presence of beautiful women. I can talk to them anywhere, even in bars and clubs. I still have much, much more to improve on myapproaching skills, but I
know that I am a Great Man that has lots of great things to offer to a Great Woman.

So when I meet a new womanI treat her like a normal person, not like a goddess.

On a recent first date (September 3rd) with a girl I met on a club I noticed a big change. I was completely calm and relaxed and she was a little bit nervous, anxious. I knew that I was just wanting to see if she was someone I wanted to meet again.

The date was great, we loved the food. I tried to teach her how to use the chopsticks and I taught her about sushi and sake. (I don’t know if I told you before, but all my family is Japanese.)

We got out of the restaurant entered my car and had our first kiss there. Then we went to a supermarket, bought some ice cream and went to my house to eat the dessert. We sat in the living room, ate the food and made out for 30 minutes.

I took her to her home, it was a Wednesday and both of us had to wake up early (it was almost midnight). This week we’ll probably have our second date, I’ll take things slowly.

I also try to flirt with girls I meet everywhere even when I don’t have any interest at all.

I noticed that I have spent much more time talking to women at events like parties and meetings. It’s something unconscious. People always see that and comment about it.

My friends don’t stop saying how I have changed. People that meet me now think that I’m a natural. They don’t have idea of the hard work, lol.

I used to be the ultimate wussy AFC loser ass kisser guy. But I believe I’m on my way to become a Great Man.

My dating life is becoming more balanced. I know that I can’t let her interfere with my profession and my career. I know now that I’m a man with options, and dating is only a part of the life of a real man.

I can barely wait the “Leading Man”.

Let me tell you something: September 13th is my birthday \o/! What a great present will I receive, lol.

I still have some trouble with creating multiple long term relationships. That is my goal for the near future.

It’s funny. When I started writing this e-mail I hadn’t realized how far I had come so far. But looking back and seeing how far I got I feel much, much better.

This e-mail was a bit long. I didn’t planned what I was writing, I just had lots of things to say and
I tried to be authentic and just express what I think and feel.

As usual I finish with my thank you. I always feel that I grow when I listen to your programs. And I always find something useful in your e-mails.

And Be Good
Be Great
Be Excellent

Marcio (Sao Paolo, Brasil)