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Ten Days In Mexico [Part Four]

Emily’s uncle Manuel lives in the urban equivalent of the Batcave–or is that “Gruta De Murcielagos“?

Either way, it’s impressive.

All that’s visible from the city street (if Delicias classifies as a “city”) is a simple garage door. Once it opens automatically, you drive down a hallway paved with Mexican tile that’s at least as long as a football field.

At the end is a massive sanctuary with walls on all sides of at least 75 feet high, and naturally lit from above. You feel as if you’ve entered into the domain of some villain from an upcoming James Bond flick.

Finding the “secret entrance” to the home itself, we were met by Emily’s aunt Petra, who had decorated the decidedly unique home traditionally. She fed us well and showed us our room, which was easily the most comfortable and well-equipped guest room either of us had seen since…ever.

None of us remember hitting the pillow that night.

The next morning, daylight revealed swingsets, a trampoline and enough high-end barbecue gear to make Bobby Flay jealous.

So if Manuel had designs on taking over the world as the next Bond villain, at least he was going to do so in a “family friendly” manner.

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Tap That: How Does Alcohol Affect Your Game? [Video]

You hit a bar or club, get a few drinks in you and you’re Superman with the women.

What’s up with that? Better yet, can you “bottle that up” and take a sip elsewhere…like during the day or even online?

It’s been a while…so here’s a video blog to brighten your day. Through the lips, over the gums…look out stomach, here it comes…

So what’s the deal? There’s gotta be some stories to share here. Let ’em rip…

Be Good,

Scot

The Chick Whisperer #21 — Greatness Gets Women

As usual, this episode has been a long time coming. It has been exactly two months since the last show.

What’s more my co-host this time should have been on ages ago.

I’m joined by none other than my good friend Carlos Xuma, the “Alpha Man” himself.

Count on a fluff-free discussion full of ways you can get on the road to attracting higher-quality women RIGHT NOW.

Now Carlos and I think a lot alike. We also both know you’re intelligent and can handle the truth. So that’s exactly what you’re going to hear on this show.

And here’s the deal: Once you hear what he and I throw out on the table in this 42-minute podcast, you’ll likely be empowered to “raise the bar” with women to a level you haven’t even dreamed of yet.

Simply put, we firmly believe that you can become a man who surrounds himself with 100% fantastic women. All that’s left now is for you to believe it also.

Just for good measure, we start off by tackling a voice mail from a guy who wants the low-down on how to develop a quicker wit and thereby increase his ability to banter effectively with women. Prepare for some surprising answers…

So click the pic above and “subscribe” on iTunes to get in on the action. Thanks again as always to you as a TCW listener for supporting the show.

No iTunes? Need the feed instead? It’s here.

This show was also the launching pad for a brand new bonus I’m giving out when you get in on the free newsletter at www.thechickwhisperer.com.

It’s a video collection entitled, “coolness personified” that I compiled. I’ve found over an hour’s worth of video featuring guys who genuinely demonstrate coolness–along with some who decidedly are the opposite.

My goal here was to be different. Everyone is giving out a “special e-report” or “free five minute video”, so I wanted to push the proverbial envelope here.

If you’re already getting the newsletter already, you can still snag it for yourself. All you do is log in with the same e-mail address you are already subscribed with.

Have fun with all this. We aim to please around here.

Be Good,

Scot

P.S. If you enjoy the show, PLEASE leave us a comment on iTunes and/or Digg this post. Mega thanks.

Ten Days In Mexico [Part Three]

In The Middle Of The Mexican 'Outback', Basically

No sooner than I had crossed the intersection I was compelled to slam on the brakes and throw the “Short Bus” into reverse.

Honestly, I had simply proceeded forward from the stop sign normally, as any red-blooded driver would have in a similar situation. Really.

But as it turns out, the Mexican Department Of Transportation (or whatever they call it) has a warped sense of humor.

And no question. Most traffic patterns in Mexico tend to assume that every vehicle that passes through is piloted by a local citizen who knows better by now than to assume anything…like, for example, that the street in front of you is NOT a “one way” street–headed in the OPPOSITE direction.

Well you know what happens when you assume. Some guy from Texas hits town and causes mayhem in the streets.

Sure enough, I was about to have “SEAT” tattooed on my forehead and Emily a “Chevy” symbol tattooed on hers had my reflexes not kicked in.

Who knew? Certainly there weren’t any SIGNS to inform us that what seemed perfectly logical was flat-out ridiculous to suppose.

Fortunately, there was a guy standing on the street corner to whistle at us…after I was already burning rubber in reverse.

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Ten Days In Mexico [Part Two]

From Deep In The Heart Of Texas To Deep In The Heart Of Mexico

Hanging out a mile or two from la frontera (the border) is one thing.

Descending past about 30 miles into the “interior” of Mexico is something else completely. And I’m talking both figuratively and literally.

Yeah, in many ways it feels like the “wild, wild west” once you’re beyond the gringo-rich bordertown atmosphere.

But then there’s la aduana, or “customs” as it’s best translated into English.

Now clearly Mexico would rather you not bring your U.S.-registered vehicle into their precious country. In fact, they apparently have more of a phobia of your car for some reason then the State Of Texas, Farmer’s Insurance and GMAC do combined. Whatever their hang-up, it’s obviously an untold calamity worse than your kick-ass symbol of American gas-guzzling extreme being pilfered under cover of the night (or by banditos during broad daylight?) and whisked off to some “chop shop” never to be recovered.

Then again, what does Farmer’s care? Once you’re past la aduana you’re pretty much on your own as far as they’re concerned. This means that a subtle form of low-grade extortion known as “Mexican Auto Insurance” is a must. The cost? Only roughly 8-10 times the cost of equivalent US insurance for a similar coverage period.

Sooner than later, you realize that’s a bargain. After all, one of the most bizarre fundamentals of Mexican culture is that people just flat-out have distinctively less respect for the value of their own lives than I’ve ever seen in any country in the world.

Emily claims that this has a lot to do with the ubiquitous Catholic Church’s teaching that God will take you when he feels like it, and that there’s not much we humans can do about it when “our time” comes.

I think that explanation carries a certain amount of verisimilitude based on what I’ve seen. Hell, if such a philosophy indeed rules the day then it obviously applies to animals also. Mexicano drivers appear to have a shocking propensity for mowing down any vertebrate (human or otherwise) that crosses their asphalt path without so much as a tap on the brakes.

But back to the story.

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Why Monogamy Isn’t An Option To Most Of The Seduction Community

Here’s a question I received via Facebook that really caught my attention. So much so that I’m sharing the Q&A with you here. By the way, if you’d like to “friend” me on facebook, my profile is here.

While we’re at it, if you’re on Twitter my username is “scotmckay“.

Here we go:

Hey Scot:

I have an honest question for you. Though I’ve ribbed you on forums before about how you always talk about your wife, I think I am very similar to you in that respect. I have a very serious gf who I will soon get engaged to. She is a sweetheart. The PUA sites really push the concept of being poly-amorous. I guess if you’re a 20 year old kid you want to have fun, and we all have our heidonistic fantasies even when in a great relationship. But my question to you is: Do you think it’s wrong for these sites to push this poly-amorous concept?

Let’s be honest here- 99% of the women I have met want a monogamous boyfriend. Sure there are younger women in sororities or other between relationships that want to date around, but overall our society tells women that they want 1 boyfriend /mate. To spread this notion to be polyamorous and that women will respect it- I find it to be stupid and not realistic.

There’s nothing better than a great monogamous relationship. Forgetting even the physical aspect, the emotional connection cannot be matched. And even if my gf isn’t “a 10” in the looks department compared to some supermodel types I see on the street, my gf is a 10 with her devotion, love, and caring and connection we have. Should the community be spreading this type of relationship rather than being playboy PUAs?

I’m a big fan of the Seduction Community and have learned lots from them, but I think this aspect of their philosophy is totally off base. Curious as to your thoughts.

Cheers,

Bradley

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Godspeed, Jim McKay

Today legendary sportscaster Jim McKay passed away at age 86, reportedly from natural causes.

The news caught my attention, especially since all through my childhood I was repeatedly asked if I was related to him, given our identical surnames and common area of residence in the Baltimore, Maryland area.

Perhaps ironically, “McKay” was a stage name. Jim’s actual last name was “McManus”.

But whether he was my namesake or not really is of little consequence. I just always really liked the guy.

Not only was he a pioneer and a true original, he flat-out oozed integrity.

I was too young when the fateful and tragic events of the 1972 Munich Olympic games happened that forever cemented his image as a dedicated professional to the U.S. television audience.

But I do vividly remember becoming a massive fan of ABC’s Wide World Of Sports.

In the pre-ESPN era of the late ’70s, Saturday afternoons from 4-6:30 Eastern Time were when it was time to tune in to channel 13 in Baltimore and hope for either demolition derby, Freddie Spencer vs. Kenny Roberts dragging their knees on the pavement, perky American gymnast girls who were still a few years too old for me, or…if God was truly smiling on us all that day…Evel Knievel jumping stuff.

And Jim McKay was therefore a constant in my memories of becoming a sports fan growing up.

Ironically, today was The Belmont Stakes, and Jim–who was especially fond of horse racing–passed without knowing the outcome. Life isn’t fair. But then again, as David DeAngelo said, if it were you wouldn’t be able to gain an unfair advantage versus other guys by learning how to get better with women.

Not surprisingly, horse racing and the Olympics have always been among my favorite sports events to watch on TV. This is probably not a coincidence.

Kind of like a “Walter Cronkite” of sports, you just felt like you were being told things as they really were when Jim McKay spoke. And somehow, you felt as if he were talking to you personally.

All of the above is well and good.

But what prompted me to write this was having read report after report from his friends, colleagues and contemporaries today who reiterated a common theme: Jim McKay was very much the same guy OFF camera as he was on. And this image of integrity and well-developed social skill translated to his personal life.

He was apparently a strong family man, and consistently maintained strong relationships with his wife, kids and friends throughout his long life–even as he “spanned the globe” to bring the rest of us “the thrill of victory and the agony of defeat”.

Moreover, he spent his life doing what he loved and what he did best, as if he were born to do it. His professional legacy was, I’m sure, subject to very little if any personal regret.

Recently I happened upon a sales page for a men’s pickup/seduction product that claimed “a magazine survey” of men on their death beds had uncovered the “shocking truth” that “the #1 regret of men at the end of their lives was that they had not slept with enough women.”

Sorry, but I’d need more evidence than that to back up such a claim.

I can’t bring myself to believe that the “majority” of us guys get to the finish line and think that way. Just like we likely don’t wish we had worked longer hours, spent more money or cheated the IRS more.

At the end of my life, I want to look back and consider myself to have done my part to make the world a better place for as many people as I could…especially those whom I loved most. I also want to look back and realize that I left every ounce of energy I had on the battlefield when is came to accomplishing my purpose in life.

Were there not those in my life whom I deeply love, and were there not a clear mission for me to go after, then I would find reason to suspect that regret was looming when my days were done. But as it stands, I feel more than validated right where I am for the time being.

No wonder I always liked Jim McKay so much.

Be Good,

Scot McKay

Ten Days In Mexico [Part One]

Welcome to the first of a multi-part series chronicling the hijinks, escapades and even life-shaking epiphanies experienced on our recent adventure driving into the heart of Mexico. Fair warning…this series isn’t completely focused on dating and seduction advice, but if you read on you’re sure to find plenty of highly applicable information nonetheless. Most of all, I hope you enjoy this series as a quick break from your busy day and from the serious business of life…Cheers.

After A Fair Share Of Paperwork Hassles, It's Wide-Open Road Ahead

“Quieres whisky?”

The tuxedo-clad Mexican waiter catches me off guard.

“Absolutamente“, I answer solemnly but resolutely.

We’re now at the reception after Emily’s cousin’s wedding that, in the unforgettable words of Yogi Berra, “made this day necessary”.

Actually, it’s what inspired the entire trip.

And since we were already through what we had imagined to be the most brutal part of the journey by the time we made it to Ciudad Juarez anyway, we figured we’d do the “deep dive” and say hola to Emily’s relatives further south.

And believe me, the whisky was sounding really good by the time it was offered up.

You see, the previous thirty hours or so had been something else.

For starters, the drive from San Antonio to El Paso is notorious. Let’s just say that the first thing you see when you hit I-10 in San Antonio is a sign that says “El Paso — 538”.

When I say there is nothing in between that sign and the one that says “Welcome To El Paso, Home Of Some Pretty Good Carnitas Tacos”, I’m including the town of Fort Stockton, TX.

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On A “Working Vacation” In Mexico

As many of you who get our newsletter already know, Emily and I are driving around Mexico this week. We’re visiting friends and family, knocking back a few cervezas, and generally enjoying the promise of a rich experience that Mexico never fails to deliver upon.

While we´re here, we´re planning on recording some Spanish language video blogs. There are clearly way too few resources on dating and seduction en Español, so why not be part of the solution instead of the problem?

Now our Español is far from perfect, but we can at least talk our way out of peligro at the aduana without having to bribe anyone, gracias. So, this should be fun. ¡Andale!

Having been here a few days, we´re about ready to go for it. We’re in Cd. Chihuahua today, headed south. So there are some great places to do video.

By the way, we have Internet access (obviously), but only for a brief period daily. We´re answering messages, if not quite as quickly as usual.

We should be wrapping this trip up sometime over the weekend, and posting videos shortly thereafter.

Vaya Con Dios,

Scot

What New-School Women’s Birth Control Means To Men

Paris All Patched Up. Nice. I think it’s time someone talked about women’s birth control from a man’s perspective.

Yeah, yeah. I understand that what a “woman does with her own body is her own business”, etc. But that doesn’t mean we as guys aren’t going to have opinions about it.

After all, by definition, we’re affected. At least somehow.

And never before have we been MORE affected than these days, when women’s birth control has become as much of a “fashion accessory” or something as a practical solution to preventing pregnancy.

So here it is. We have “ribbed” condoms, flavored ones and so forth…which only goes to show that contraceptives are everyone’s business after all.

So if women’s interests can potentially be met by male contraception, it’s time for us guys to have a voice.

1) The Patch

The birth control patch apparently works well, and fast. But this is not meant to be a dry, clinical piece on objective functionality and medical pros/cons. So let’s get to the point.

The point is that I don’t want to see a big ol’ sloppy Band-Aid ™ on her tail section. And no apologies either. A good, well-placed whack at key moments just doesn’t quite resonate the same way (literally or figuratively) when that thing’s stuck there. And since most women and men are right-handed, this just underscores my point. If that last sentence didn’t make sense, think about it until it does.

So ladies, if you must use The Patch, I fully get you’re trying to make it discreet so you don’t look like you’re healing from road rash or something. But it can’t go back there either.

And since I’m at a loss for recommending a better place for it myself, I feel your dilemma. Especially since even if you decide to just yank the patch off and chuck it there tends to be a nasty mark for a while. It’s as if some mutant square-faced leech has been macking away at you. Nice.

2) The Ring

Formally branded “NuvaRing“, nothing quite takes the “ce” out of “contraception” like this contraption.

Yes, it works, and it’s probably a major improvement upon diaphragms and IUDs.

But you don’t think it adversely affects your sex life, guess again.

First and foremost, don’t listen to your gynecologist, who will probably tell you that “you won’t be able to feel it, and neither will your guy.”

Whatever.

That theory goes out the window the first time “your guy” pulls out wearing the thing. Bulls eye.

Me: “It looks I won the ‘ring toss’ game. Where’s my big teddy bear?”

Her: “[gasp] OMG…that wasn’t supposed to be possible! LOL Here, let me put it on the nightstand/dashboard/kitchen counter/shower head”

Unfortunately, you only get three hours worth of a “time out” from that thing before the whole transaction is null and void and all bets are off. Ouch.

Speaking of “ouch”, if you just leave The Ring in and deal with carnival games, there’s always the off chance that Louis Leakey is going to find it right at an inopportune moment…sideways. Let’s just say that’s a mood killer.

And we won’t talk about the likelihood of finding “temporarily” removed rings on the carpet by the bed with lint all stuck to them. Uh oh.

So what’s a woman to do? Sure that’s your business, ladies. Then again, we could wear latex condoms even if you’re viciously allergic, couldn’t we?

But we won’t. And we’d appreciate if you’d stick to the pill if at all possible, please.

And by the way guys, don’t be talked out of wrapping that rascal, either by her or by yourself.

And if she says, “I’m on the pill so you don’t have to pull out”, there’s no proof like solid evidence in the form of a pill case with the “numbers matching”.

At least you have tangible evidence with rings and patches, huh? Well, that’s at least one in the “plus” column for them. Draw your own conclusions.

Be Good,

Scot McKay

P.S. Emily (who is ring and patch free, thank you) and I are off to Mexico for a week of vacation. Don’t complain. We’ll be WAY less cranky when we get back all refreshed. Everything will run “business as usual” at the X & Y Communications Shop however, thanks to the magic of the Internets.

The Top Ten Most Underrated Dating/Seduction Gurus

I believe it’s high time for there to be a list of the “unsung heroes” of men’s dating and seduction advice.
After all, there are plenty of published lists of top PUAs and/or dating “gurus” that tend to be populated by the same guys year after year. So I see this as a chance to introduce you to some of the guys you may not have already heard about…but should.

So here’s my list of the top ten “fast movers” and “under the radar” guys. By the way, the list is alphabetical not hierarchical.

1) Alonzo Jennings

Alonzo hails from the San Francisco Bay Area and is an interesting cat to say the least. His vision is to combine a vision for life coaching and motivational speaking with an ancillary focus on dating advice and how to get better with women.

So impressed was I with Alonzo’s gig, that I recently had him join me for a bonus program that went out to my Power Sessions For Men guys. The response was overwhelmingly positive…enough that Alonzo will be on VIRTUOSITY and perhaps The Chick Whisperer in the near future.

2) Ask Romeo

Jae, Allen, Shrop and the rest of the crew at AskRomeo have some serious game. Better yet, they have serious talent for being able to impart what they know to others. With something like twenty coaches spread out all over the U.S., there’s someone on the team who just about everyone can relate to.

Jae and Shrop both have done extraordinarily strong VIRTUOSITY programs, each getting major accolades from listeners.

3) REDACTED (retired)

I first met REDACTED when he called me nearly a year and a half ago with a vision for entering the dating coaching business. Nowadays, he has built a nice practice for himself in Scottsdale, AZ and is about to release his first CD program.

His “wingwoman” service is starting to get well-deserved attention. Nowhere will you find a more genuine guy who is dedicated to his craft than REDACTED, so here’s hoping he hits the big-time soon.

4) Joseph South

Joseph South has a loyal following of listeners to his Joseph Went South podcast, a well-produced and insightful show highlighting the collective wisdom of JWS’s considerable life experience.

Joseph combines the right mix of edginess with an overall tone that lets you know he’s the kind of guy you could have a beer with. His “Early Frame Announcement” principle, which essentially describes how a woman openly tells you what her personality is like soon after meeting her, is one of the most intuitive bits of dating advice I’ve heard in a long time.

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One Dozen Top Dating And Seduction Resources For Men On The Net

Recently I did a video featuring all the cool resources on the Internet I could find for men when it comes to dating and seduction.

For fun, I’ve decided to list the twelve best (outside of the wide world of X & Y Communications, naturally…right?). I couldn’t come up with a clear winner so I’ve listed them in reverse alphabetical order:

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Thundercat’s Seduction Lair

Joseph Matthew’s wildly popular portal for all things Seduction Community is often controversial, but always the source of an interesting read. With as much traffic his site gets, you’re always guaranteed something fresh and provocative. It’s the “gloves off” approach, all the way, which here in Texas is never a bad thing.

BTW, I’m still trying to figure out how I get traffic from TSL every other minute even though I can’t find any of my links there anywhere. I’ve been meaning to give Thundy a call and ask him about that.

SoSuave

OK, granted. There are some BITTER dudes on Allen’s forums. But that’s one popular message board nonetheless. What truly sets So Suave apart, however, is the completely novel way that articles are posted on the front page. Brief, focused material gets the nod, and that nod is often given to people who are normal, every day guys who contributed their coolest bits of advice.

And once your material makes that front page, it’s highlighted for literally weeks. Allen chooses the best of the best, and adds only one or two articles to the rotation every week.

Seduction Chronicles

This is an exceptionally well thought out site that is pleasing not only to the eye but to the intellect. Donovan somehow manages to incorporate a literally staggering amount of high-quality content while keeping a clean interface. The quantity and the quality of interaction on this site is unparalleled. Definitely a must-read.

Sargenation

What the guys at Sargenation have done is set up a blog-aggregation site that essentially acts as a clearinghouse for every major blog on dating and seduction out there. Visitors can log in and vote their favorites to the top of the list, while partaking of tons of additional content. Very user-friendly and well stocked on a regular basis with high-quality reads.

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Understanding Women: Does The Car You Drive Matter? [Part Two][Video]

Now it’s time for the second part of that two-part video blog series on “The Car You Drive”.

Last time we talked about your car’s condition and upkeep.

In this segment, you’ll get the lowdown on what the style of car you drive says about you. And what’s the deal–Are there really “girl cars” and “guy cars”?

Watch and discover…and laugh too, if you’re in a good mood:

I sincerely hope these two vids have been of benefit to you. Actaully, if they’ve even been a tiny shred of value to you, please bookmark this on Del.icio.us or Digg it, using the convenient icons below.

And for something extra-Diggable, check back in a couple of days. I’m going to list my top ten cars for people with a successful dating life.

After that, you’ll be getting a load of my top ten dating/seduction resource sites on the Internet. Prepare for something completely different there, no doubt.

Be Good,

Scot

You Can Take Her Bra Off With One Hand, But You’ll Need BOTH For This

Maybe you remember this post about how to take a woman’s bra off with one hand.

Well, apparently women have the exact opposite problem.

Enjoy this video:

YouTube

Somehow, the appearance of “feo” in the URL’s character string is ironic, especially if you’re a Spanish speaker.

Anyway, for the record I have a hard time believing this is a real issue. But the video is clearly intended for a female audience nonetheless.

OK, no more messing around. Part Two of “The Car You Drive” is coming up next…

Be Good,

Scot McKay

Finally Finished: Deserve What You Want…The Audiobook

At long last, the audiobook version of Deserve What You Want is here.

Someone said, “Yeah well, it’s about time.” And I heard you.

Well, I have to tell you, it’s a MASSIVE job to pull off an audiobook. I totally underestimated the task at hand. If you’ve ever tried to talk for five hours without tripping over a single word, let alone missing the required inflection to get the exact point across, then you’ve pretty much got the mental picture.

I started seeing things on the screen that weren’t there after a while. And then came the realization that the human voice can only go so long with out a break, and then it’s…um…so long.

But you don’t have to concern yourself with any of that.

I’ve got your back this time, and the finished product is free of gaffes yet just “human” enough to be charming. I’m sure you wouldn’t have it any other way, right?

What the deal is here, is that I’ve gone ahead and rolled the audiobook version into the same download areas that feature the PDF (i.e. “written e-book”) version. So if you already own Deserve What You Want, guess what…head to the Member’s Area page and you’ll soon find out you now own the audiobook version as well.

See, I told you I had your back.

All the rest of y’all can getchasum too. If you are all about putting the past behind, discovering what you want from MOTOS (Members Of The Opposite Sex), deserving what you want and then making it happen, then this book is all about you.

The men’s version is here:

http://www.deservewhatyouwant.com/men

The women’s version is here:

http://www.deservewhatyouwant.com/women

OK, just to be clear, NO…I only read the book once, and I used the “co-ed” version of the book for that. That page actually still exists, so if you want the “numbers to match”, go here. But if you get the men’s or women’s version, do know that the audiobook will differ slightly.

Next time I’ll really post part two of “The Car You Drive”. I’m just a bit excited about having finally completed this project at last…

Be Good,

Scot McKay

P.S. Call your mother today. And if you are dating a single mom, do something cool for her.

Attracting Women: The Car You Drive [Part One][Video]

Here’s the first of a two-part video blog series on “The Car You Drive”.

Lots of guys think that the hottest women only want a guy with a nice car. Usually, and predictably, the guys who believe that are the ones who don’t have a nice car.

Is there any truth to all of this, or is it just another in a long line of self-limiting beliefs?

Get ready to find out…

OK, let’s hear it from you guys out there with nice cars and with not-so-nice cars. What’s the deal from your perspective?

And ladies, don’t be shy either, okay? Do women only desire men with nice cars?

Keep it locked in right here for Part Two in a couple of days.

Be Good,

Scot

How To Date Taller Women

I’ve been getting numerous requests for some info on this topic lately.

And I’ll tell you, what was supposed to have been a blog post grew into a full-scale Special Report. There has not been nearly enough written on this subject, so I did it up right. Pickup, seduction, relationship management. It’s all in there, fellas.

Since writing it all down I’ve polished up the finished product and made it available to you for FREE right here.

By the way, even if you’re 6’2 and interested in dating WNBA centers, this is for you.

Enjoy.

Next time, more VIDEO…

Be Good,

Scot

Kino That Works, And The Women Who Love You For Getting It Right

Emily, Delivering The Classic KACS Don’t fall off your chair when I tell you what I’m about to say. But you might indeed want to sit down for this nonetheless.

Here it is. I’m going to be teaching more about “kino” from now on.

In the past I’ve given the concept a hard time in general. But going forward I’m going to be more open minded about the term.

Now listen up though. It’s not like I’ve ever been against touching women. In fact, I highly recommend doing it as much as possible, given the fair opportunity to indulge oneself is there for you.

It’s just that when it comes right down to it, what has always struck me as wrongheaded was the concept of slapping a scientific, NLP-inspired moniker on the whole phenomenon and then packaging it in a tightly-wrapped package with specific “deployment” instructions on how to “escalate” it or whatever.

That’s why I haven’t pushed the concept, at least as generally described within the Seduction Community.

Knowing that women respond powerfully to a man who is not sexually pushy, putting potential physical contact with any particular woman on a time schedule–complete with paint-by-numbers-inspired action steps–comes off as bass-ackwards.

Dudes. If you’re in need of improvement in terms of the number of women you’re getting to paw up these days, the very last thing you need is to over-analyze the minutiae of the scenario (some more).

Disagree if you’d like (the comment space below is calling your name). Go ahead and tell me that guys who are just starting out need a framework to begin with. Tell me that you’ve got to start with “baby steps”.

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X & Y On The Fly #37 — Dating Differences When You’re Younger Vs. Older

Let’s face it. This podcast truly has something for everyone.

In it Emily and I pick apart the advantages of dating when you are younger and the how that all stacks up compared to what dating is like for people in their thirties, forties and beyond.

Somewhere in between we cover the major dilemma often faced by those who are recent college graduates, and even get around to unveiling the hidden secret of single retirees who are dating again that all of us can learn from.

In other words, it’s “business as usual”: 100% original content for FREE that you are unlikely to hear elsewhere. Wait, I guess that’s not really “business as usual”, right? Well it is in the sense that you are probably completely used to getting something completely different out of X & Y On The Fly. We’ll keep it at that.

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Back atcha again in a day or two with a real-life confession that I need to own up to…

Be Good,

Scot

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Online Dating: “Fence Sitters” [Video]

OK, this time around we’re going to talk about “Fence Sitters”.

Anyone who has ever been online and succeeded at getting some interaction going with MOTOS knows exactly what I’m talking about.

You start typing to someone via e-mail, and they try to put off taking things to the phone for as long as possible. And actually meeting? That could take months or even years based on some people’s timelines.

So what’s up with that? Watch the vid and find out:

Got any “fence sitter” stories or anything to add in general?

Be Good,

Scot