You probably know what I’m going to say here, but it sounds like the guy who refuses on the grounds of “I need to take baby steps” is making an excuse not to take his “baby steps.” And over time, repeated real baby steps add up to major strides.

When it came time, I found my best motivations to take any baby steps as follows…process the following thoughts and the hesitation and excuses wither like a vampire at high noon on a Texas summer day:

1. REGRET — “If I do not approach this woman, I
will wonder ‘what could have happened’ for the rest of the week. I will see (or at least imagine) her laughing and getting close to another man who had the balls to approach her.”

Avoiding regret is a super powerful emotion to me.

2. LIMITED DOWNSIDE POTENTIAL — “If I approach her and the interaction is going nowhere, I can calmly excuse myself to go meet some friends. If she creates a scene or gets insulting, I can thank her for emphatically showing how undesirable a woman she is, beneath the exterior.”

3. HIGH UPSIDE POTENTIAL — “If I approach her and we hit it off, I get to experience a nice warm feminine kiss–or more, and have the nice feeling of being excited to meet up with this woman again.”

In descending order of desirability — good interaction, bad interaction, no interaction.

Ergo, when it’s presented “interaction v. no interaction,” the choice is clear.

Spoken like a consultant. Aiiiee. Time to switch career again.

Scot hit it on the nail. I am a woman who oftentimes eats lunch alone, dinner alone and do a lot of things alone. Men always look, but none of them ever approach!

If they only knew how friendly I am and how much I would appreciate the company. Even if it doesnt go anywhere, I have at least had a conversation with another fellow human and possibly made a good friend who can introduce me to others.

I am very assertive and have to stop myself from approaching men and doing what Scot suggests. I want a man who is a leader and can take chances and I will hold off on approaching a man just to see if he possesses these qualities.

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