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The Chick Whisperer #42 — How To Make Women Laugh, And What To Do When They Cry

Man, if there’s anything that tends to completely vex guys all over the world, it’s got to be the whole concept of making women laugh.

Deep down, we know women find men with a sense of humor irresistible.

But wait a minute. Do we really have to actually make women bust their gut laughing all the time in order to come off as having a “sense of humor”?

That’s not only a really good question, it’s the question that my co-host Elaine Davis and I break down the answer to on this latest episode of The Chick Whisperer podcast.

If you don’t know Elaine, she happens to be the only dating coach I know of who’s also a professional stand-up comedian (as in, with paid gigs at places like The Laugh Factory in LA, and all that). Having heard so many stand up comics moan about their dating lives in their acts over the years–and suspecting it was all rooted in fact somewhere–I’ve been utterly fascinated by the apparent disconnect here.

I mean, which is it? Do funny guys attract women, or not?

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The Chick Whisperer Podcast #38: Quit Making Things So Complicated

When I called up the Adonis Effect’s Brad Howard and extended the long-overdue invitation to co-host the podcast with me, I also asked him to suggest a topic. This is pretty typical, since the shows are always best when we riff on whatever the co-host’s specialty is.

Well, Brad wasted no time when faced with this question.

“Oh, that’s an easy one. Lately I’ve been thinking a lot about how difficult we as guys try to make meeting and relating to women out to be. But really, it just doesn’t have to be all that hard, you know?”

I instinctively knew that was a winner of an idea.

After all, not only did I agree 100% with his opinion on the matter, we had never actually talked about it on the show.

So 52 minutes of recording later, that all had changed. Now you can listen to Episode 38 of the world famous Chick Whisperer podcast and decide for yourself whether we’re on to something here, or whether we’re completely off base.

But one thing’s for sure, if you don’t do any listening, then you certainly can’t do any deciding. Right?

Now, whether or not you agree that meeting and relating to women is complicated or not, getting your hands on this episode most definitely isn’t as difficult as you might think. All you need to do is hit iTunes and click the “subscribe” button.

The Chick Whisperer podcast even has “iPod friendly” titles and album art, so finding it amidst the thousands of other files is just about as uncomplicated as listening to it.

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Be Good,

Scot

P.S. Brad and I also cover a great voice mail question from Craig in Colorado on how to build a social circle and meet women FAST. Good stuff.

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The Chick Whisperer #20 — “First Date Success: Welcome To Your Reality”

Dave M. is one busy guy these days. But that didn’t keep him from dropping in on the show for almost a full hour’s worth of non-stop game.

Let’s cut to the chase here. You’re probably used to hearing Dave M. talk about online dating. While it’s true that he and I could probably hash out online game for you all day long together (e.g. see VIRTUOSITY), I decided to think “out of the box” this time around.

Knowing that Dave is a master at online dating strategy, with the real-world track record to back it up, I started thinking perhaps it was time to unleash to the world exactly what this guy knows about how to make first dates go the way you want them to…every single time.

My logic dictated that the dude’s got to have tons of game here. After all, he’s had all the “practice runs” in the world to get it right, huh?

Rest assured neither he nor this session in general will disappoint you.

Expect almost a solid hour of non-stop game, kicking off with a voice mail from George at FSU asking about how to be consistently successful with women.

From there, it’s all about how to get your act together and maintain full mastery over first meetings with women. All I have to say is, “Bring a notepad to this party.” If you can soak up all the rapid-fire info here, you’re likely to cure yourself of first-date humiliation for a lifetime. And you and I both know that it’s all blue sky from there–as long as you can get this stuff right.

But no worries. We make it as easy as falling out of bed for you. No kidding.

By the way, listen closely at the end for a ridiculous scheme that Dave and I dreamed up right there on the spot…even while the audio recorder was running. I don’t want to give it away, because it’s a unique surprise specifically for you as a listener.

But let’s just say that putting the authors of two intensely potent and field-tested online dating programs together can end up being a lot like putting Beavis and Butthead in a room together armed with lighters and kerosene.

Kaboom.

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I also had a “bleeding heart” and left that special unsyndicated bonus episode with Brent Smith on the server just for newsletter subscribers.

Nah. The truth is that as long as people are signing up for the newsletter to get it, I’ll be giving them a copy. That’s just the kind of guy I am, I guess.

Get in on the free newsletter for yourself and download the bonus podcast at www.thechickwhisperer.com . If you’re already getting the newsletter already, you can still grab a listen. All you do is log in with the same e-mail address you are already subscribed with and you can getchasum.

OK, having read all that, guess who hasn’t had much sleep lately?

Be Good,

Scot

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