Man, if there’s anything that tends to completely vex guys all over the world, it’s got to be the whole concept of making women laugh.
Deep down, we know women find men with a sense of humor irresistible.
But wait a minute. Do we really have to actually make women bust their gut laughing all the time in order to come off as having a “sense of humor”?
That’s not only a really good question, it’s the question that my co-host Elaine Davis and I break down the answer to on this latest episode of The Chick Whisperer podcast.
If you don’t know Elaine, she happens to be the only dating coach I know of who’s also a professional stand-up comedian (as in, with paid gigs at places like The Laugh Factory in LA, and all that). Having heard so many stand up comics moan about their dating lives in their acts over the years–and suspecting it was all rooted in fact somewhere–I’ve been utterly fascinated by the apparent disconnect here.
I mean, which is it? Do funny guys attract women, or not?
As it turns out, you can’t be just “funny”. And that’s where you think it would get complicated. But no worries…after you dig in to this episode I think the true dynamic of what really turns a woman on relative to the whole “humor” thing will be crystal clear. And guess what? You’re probably already much, much farther along the road to getting this right than you think.
Plus, as a weird ironic twist to things, Elaine and I also handle a voice mail from a listener on what to do when women play the infamous “crying card” during disagreements. You just gotta love the fact that I reserved that one for when I had a lady co-host, huh?
As always, The Chick Whisperer podcast has “iPod friendly” titles and album art, so finding it amidst the thousands of other files on your 64GB MP3 player is just about as uncomplicated as listening to it.
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Be Good,
Scot
P.S. I already have the next episode in the works. Trying to cut the wait between episodes a bit for y’all.
