The concept of deserving what you want is the fundamental one in this community. But let me ask you a question. How do you understand this concept?
See, some time ago I caught myself thinking that I constantly worked on developing myself in order to deserve great women in my life. Like an athlete preparing for a competition, or a soldier getting ready for a war.
I thought to myself: “Just do one more thing (whatever it was), and I’ll be ready to meet quality women out there!”
And by doing this I was, in fact, staying in my flat most of the time. Not meeting women, not having dates, not enjoying women’s company…because I thought I was not good enough yet to meet them!
And this was a big mistake on my part…
I remember how my friend once said to me: “It is much easier to get what you really want then what you think you can get.” But the thing is that most people go for what they think they can get. So there is a lot of competition for mediocrity, for the second best.
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