Those of you who receive the X & Y Communications Newsletter read earlier today about how it’s possible that a woman will bail out of a relationship with a guy even if he hasn’t done anything particularly wrong.
Basically, the premise is that if a woman is afraid of being hurt, or in someway feels she isn’t deserving of a relationship with a great man, she may pull the proverbial plug on things.
In other words…a man can theoretically drive a woman away simply because he’s got his act together as far as the “Big Four” are concerned.
At least one reader has already e-mailed me, claiming what I’m talking about must only happen to “rock stars and movie actors”.
So how about it? Do women really ever say they “need their space” or “just want to be friends” because of their own insecurities?
In case there are any other doubters out there, read this message I just got via MySpace from a guy who wishes to remain anonymous. Here’s the truth…complete with empirical evidence.
While there are some added plot complications (e.g. first sex recently, jealous friends), I think the message is loud and clear: Sometimes women do “run away” precisely because a guy is doing everything right.
Note the most poignant parts are in bold type.
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