Two limiting beliefs come to mind for me in night game, and any time overall, really.
These involve rejection and the so-called rules of approach. Too many times we wrap ourselves up in both of these things with certain stigmas and beliefs and end up adding way too much to the whole thing.
Rejection: In my opinion, rejection is your greatest tool to learn how to move forward. Yet, society shows and tells a different story.
We have seen it, right? Guy goes up to girl, drink is thrown. This is so rare in reality, but guys really do think it will happen.
More realistic is this scenario. Guy talks to girl, girl blows off guy. Guy goes and complains about it to his buddies, they say, “Well you tried.” Guy goes home and feels self pity and complains more…to himself.
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