“And the day came when the risk it took to remain tight inside the bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom.”
–Anais Nin
Congratulations on making a decision that will transform your life.
Seriously, congratulations. You may think “I haven’t done anything, I just got tired of spending Saturday nights playing Minesweeper/staring at the lobotomy box/nervously gawking at hotties from across the bar.”
But you’ve decided to master your own life and stop wallowing in a septic tank of self-pity. How many people have come to the same realization as you and decided to do nothing, or worse–whine and yowl about it?
And let’s not forget the second part of that sentence—”…making a decision that will transform your life.” It’s not just about your ability to date. That extra confidence will show on the basketball court, in the client’s office, and at Thanksgiving dinner with your own family members.
Now, the first step of the journey is to take a long, hard look into the darkest corners of your brain.
