Hey, there’s a lot of talk about how to improve your skills with women. But how do you know when you’ve actually ARRIVED?
On the surface, that seems like a silly question. I mean, you’re either attracting women or you’re not, right? When you start attracting women, all is good…at least you’d think so.
But what I’ve come to realize is that “success” isn’t really as tangible a commodity for most guys as they may have originally thought it would be.
Guys wonder if getting “rejected” at all means they’ve still got work to do.
They ask me if having six out of eight women responding to them online is “good enough”.
Still others want to know if they’re doing something wrong because they haven’t met their “100 out of 100” (e.g. perfectly imperfect) dream woman just yet.
Well, I can tell you definitively that 1) Even the most desirable men AND women can still never get EVERYONE they want. 2) At least 25% of the women you write to online will not write you back for reasons that have virtually NOTHING to do with you, and 3) it takes TIME to meet “The One”. In fact, it SHOULD…you’ve got to date enough to figure out what “The One” will even be like.
What we obviously need here, then, are some more reasonable yardsticks to measure “success” with.
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