Obviously, this blog is so new that you can still get high off of sniffing the pages.
But with a few posts (and cervezas) under our belt around here, it’s time to get more interactive. One of the great things a blog does, by nature, is get YOU involved. So with that in mind, it’s time to do something that seems almost obvious yet is easily forgotten by many.
I want to ask YOU…the READER…what it is that you would like to see more focus on. You’ve read lots of “dating advice”, and we both know that a lot of it tends to start sounding the same after a while.
Give us your most sought-after topics that you just aren’t getting any joy on from elsewhere. My pledge to you is that your requests will be heard and we’ll get to work on answering the kind of questions you are actually asking–and getting down to the issues that affect you the most.
Don’t be shy. Reply to this post and tell us what you’d like to see. Within reason. Of course.
Be Good,
Scot
Ok, I’ve been wondering about something for awhile now and I haven’t seen anything at all written about it. So here goes.
I know a number of girls who are very naive, and unknowingly flirtatious with all guys. As a result they have a TON of guys in love with them — until they’re very much disliked by those same guys when the guys find out they’ve been ‘led on’ and that the girl only dated them because she didn’t want to lose them as a friend.
Having grown up with lots of men around and working with mostly men, I don’t treat guys like I treat my girl friends. I treat them like a guy friend would treat them. And so, I’m able to keep these guys that I’m not one bit attracted to as ‘friends’. Perhaps I’m in a somewhat different situation than a lot of girls. The people I hang out with are mostly unattached guys that I know would like to date me if I let them think twice about it. Not because I’m so great mind you — just because I’m a girl and I’m around (one of them, after convincing himself he had no chance with me, told me he’d give me anything in the world if I could hook him up with one of my girl friends). And so, for a long time, I’ve been convinced that my ‘coolness’ was kinder to these guys than being real warm and friendly.
Now, most dating/relationship advice seems to say one should flirt and engage every MOTOS. To me, this approach always seemed a little selfish. Am I wrong?
I would like to see more success stories.
Ed