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X & Y On The Fly #36 — How To Communicate With The Opposite Sex

Emily and I decided it was about time we did an episode on how men and women can not only learn how to decode what the other gender is saying, but actually speak to MOTOS (Members Of The Opposite Sex) in terms that they can actually understand.

First it was understanding MOTOS, now actually talking to and decoding them effectively once and for all? Yeah, we must be crazy.

But what can we say? We both had lots of energy at the exact same time (rare these days) when this was recorded last night and I personally believe this is one of our most amped-up episodes ever. If anything, there’s plenty of original stuff to think about in there.

So if you’re already a listener, mad love atcha. And if not, do yourself the joy of subscribing so from now on you’re the first to know when our little masterpieces are unleashed.

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Be Good,

Scot

The Chick Whisperer #19–“What Do I Do Next?”

For the latest episode, I got the newest VIRTUOSITY co-conspirator, Cory Skyy, in on the game.

Cory’s ideas pretty much blow everyone away who takes time to listen to what he’s got to say. This is for good reason, since his approach to “natural game” is on a whole new level.

So what better guy to have sit in for the latest topic, which is “What Do I Say Next?”

That question is pretty much the most popular question to ask of all time around here. I get e-mails from guys literally every day (sometimes sitting back to back in my inbox) asking me some form of that question.

Well, as you’ve come to expect around here, Cory and I don’t just slap a “band-aid” on that question and call it a solution. Instead, we take the long view and show you how to never have to worry about having to ask “What Do I Do Next?” ever again.

We also take the time to answer a voice mail from Dave in Indiana about how to handle things when you’ve been seeing only one woman “unexclusively” for a while more in concept than in reality…but then you really do meet someone else you’d like to date also. If you think about it, that’s a damn good question.

So click the pic above and “subscribe” on iTunes to get in on the action. Please leave us a review, also. Thanks again to all TCW listeners for supporting the show–we’re back on the front page in our iTunes category. Much appreciated

There’s also one last chance to get your hands on that special unsyndicated bonus episode with Brent Smith that we produced especially for newsletter subscribers. Get in on the free newsletter for yourself and download the bonus podcast at www.thechickwhisperer.com . If you’re already getting the newsletter already, no worries…just enter the same e-mail address you are already subscribed with and you can download the bonus episode also.

Be Good,

Scot

The Chick Whisperer #18 — Defining Relationships And Making Solid Decisions

I finally got my act together and released Episode #18 of The Chick Whisperer podcast last night. This must mean we’re “legal”. Were things only that uncomplicated…LOL

My co-host for this one is my good friend Frank B. Kermit. Frank and I have something in common. We’re each married to our own respective version of the greatest woman we’ve ever met.

So we got together, answered one of your voicemails and proceeded to throw down on the subject of having complete, total control over your world when it comes to women. You may need a shot or two of good ol’ Patron Silver after you hear what we’ve got in store for you.

After all, it’s time to stop listening to the hype over what someone else thinks you should want from your relationships with women and make your own decisions from a position of strength.

And check it out–you have more options than you think. It’s time to man up and exercise them. Guys like Frank and I have your back all the while, no doubt.

So getchasum. In fact, if you hit the graphic above and “subscribe” on iTunes that would rule…especially if you leave us a review. It’s YOU the listeners who have moved us up the charts again into a firm spot on the front page in our iTunes category. Right on.

And don’t forget, I have a special unsyndicated bonus episode with Brent Smith tucked away for newsletter subscribers. Get on board at www.thechickwhisperer.com .

Be Good,

Scot

X & Y On The Fly #35 — Get Over It: How To Fall Out Of Love

X & Y On The Fly Podcast It’s easy to let yourself fall in love. Falling OUT of love? Not so easy. Join Emily and I along with our guest the illustrious SoCal queen of dating advice herself Renee Piane for straight-talk on a subject that never quite seems to be addressed properly…or fully.

You know by now that XYotF shows tend to be packed to the gills with content, so I’d recommend subscribing and storing these golden nuggets of joy on your iPod.

And don’t forget, when you go to www.deservewhatyouwant.com and sign up for our newsletter you can get your grubby mitts on an unsyndicated BONUS EPISODE we call “The JuniorCast”. If you are already a newsletter subscriber, simply log in using the e-mail address you are already subscribed with and you can download the BONUS EPISODE also.

Be Good,

Scot