First of all, I just wanted to let everyone know that it’s me, Scot, who is posting this. Jim didn’t originally intend for what you are about to read to be a blog post. He was simply dropping me a note to tell me what had happened the night before. Posting it is purely my doing.
As a coach for X & Y Communications, Jim has come a LONG way with women in a relatively short amount of time. These days he’s got the greatest woman he’s ever met in his life…and she apparently is just as happy as he is. What you’re about to read underscores that.
Enjoy this story from Jim. In my mind, it clearly demonstrates the all-conquering power of being a “big four” man, as outlined in The Master Plan.
Hey Scot,
Funny story for you from last night. So Heidi and I went to a country night down the street from where I live at a local watering hole I frequent. Heidi was looking GORGEOUS and dropping jaws and derailing freight trains last night.
So she and I noticed a table of guys who were being extremely obvious staring at girls and then saying the usual stuff. So Heidi went to go to the bathroom and I could not help but smile when the three of them were staring at her with their tongues hanging out.
So when she came back, she was strutting at me. As she got closer to our table one guy leaned out and around staring at her butt. So I put on a cheeky grin and caught the three of them and waved and laughed a bit. They got a kick out of it, and when they looked back I gave a nod of the head and a thumbs up. Heidi was loving it.
Then, later on, a bunch of the Boston Bruins came in. Now out of all the Boston teams, the Bruins have been my favorite since I have been a kid.
When they came in, all their eyes were on Heidi also. Again, I loved it. I am always the proudest guy in the room when we’re together.
So I went to the bathroom, and I just knew when I came out one of them was gonna be talking to her. Since I knew they had the “pro athlete” confidence I don’t blame them. So as I came back, the Bruins enforcer Shawn Thornton was trying. Now Heidi blows off guys with class, and a bit of sass too. So I could tell by his body language that he was shut down, but about to try again.
I came over, said “Hey how are you doing?” He mumbled “well”, and then walked away. Now I knew I had to be careful if I was gonna AMOG him because this guy is an animal on the ice. But as I held my confident composure and smiled at him, I could tell he felt overwhelmed.
Heidi then told me what he had said. She said, “Oh he came over and pulled out a huge wad of $100 bills, then was counting it in a way I would notice. Then he said, ‘Hi I am Shawn.’ He put out his hand and I said, ‘Hi, I am Heidi.’ He put out his hand to shake, which I did. Then he said something I could not hear, followed by, “I am just looking for a hat to fit my head. I said, ‘Yeah you do have a huge head.'” I know the tone she delivers it in and I could not help but laugh.
Then she said to me, “You know what? Because they are pro athletes does not mean anything to me. Most girls would be ‘goo goo ga ga’ for it. But I know in all of Boston I have the hottest and only real man. Actually in the whole world, I would not trade you for anyone.”
I just gave her a big hug and kiss. I have to say, my confidence, zero insecurity, smiling at the whole thing, and being a man with the “Big Four” goes a lot further than many people might want to give credit for.
–Jim
