I’m proud to present the X & Y Communications team, devoted to your success with MOTOS (Members Of The Opposite Sex).

Each has been hand-selected by me personally for their respective unique talents at both relating to women and imparting that knowledge to you. Expect each to bring a new perspective and a fresh voice–all in keeping with our overall commitment to a character-based approach.


At one time, Jim was one of those guys who was good looking and funny yet had mediocre success with women. Never having been much of an ‘approach guy’, he played his cards close to his chest.

As a self-described “hopeless romantic”, Jim has always sought the very best in women he has been with. Though his idealism has resulted in disappointment in the past, ultimately Jim began the all-important journey to dating skillfully and having options…the right way. Basically, he realized that he was successful at other things in life and it was time to get what he deserved with women also.

Having started from scratch, he was amazed by how fast he progressed, and even now is still discovering how to make stronger connections, internally and externally.

A former freestyle skier living in the Boston area, Jim is in his late twenties and is blessed to have experienced a lot of life in a short time. He has always dealt with people and loves to observe.


A tireless student of the “inner game,” Joseph Jensen is a Ten-Plus alum who has leveraged X & Y Communications principles to propel his entire scope of human interactions to the next level. Joe knows that mastering oneself is an intense but extremely rewarding process that never starts too early–or too late–and pays dividends from social interactions to business school interviews, from presenting and discovering YOUR best self on dates, client presentations, family interactions, and anything in between.

A native of Northeast Ohio, Joe holds a Harvard degree in biochemical sciences, has enjoyed academic and professional success in science, investments, and consulting, and has recently his MBA at The MIT Sloan School Of Management. He is enjoying his dating success and always looking for new venues of self-improvement.


Austin Parker has adult ADD. He’s a scientist, writer, world traveler, runner, and lover of green tea parfaits. Having started his journey improving his social skills after a two year military stint in Europe, on his return he felt isolated from his peers and decided to do something about it. Subsequently, it has become his mission to find something special about everyone he meets. This mantra has opened people up in ways he never imagined possible. Now he’s here to share what he has learned and help you make a difference in your life.


Long a student of character-based game, Dave W. resides in Sydney, Australia and has brings a considerable reserve of unique skills to the X & Y Communications team. Among his specialties include daytime pickup, “virtual hub creation” and train game–a topic on which he has been published in nationwide publications.

Already an accomplished blogger, Dave’s no-nonsense storytelling and zero tolerance for “fluff” should prove especially entertaining and informational to readers.

Along with his passion for helping guys get better with women, Dave enjoys his “day job” as a video game developer.


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Scot McKay, X & Y Communications LLC

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