If you’re like me, you’ve seen your fair share of couples talking on TV or whatever about how happily married they are.
Maybe they’ve been blissfully married 50 years, etc., etc.
Have you ever noticed how often they talk about how LITTLE they’ve argued over the years?
I mean, my own parents have rarely—if ever—argued with each other, at least in front of us, their offspring. And yes, they truly have been blissfully married for over 50 years.
I’ve really never met two people who agree on most everything the way they do.
For what it’s worth, the foundations of what I’ve learned about what a great relationship should look like were formed at a very young age. My parents have always been a shining example of that.
But hold on a second.
Despite the evidence I’ve seen at home and on TV, is how much or how little a couple argues really ALWAYS such an effective barometer of “relationship health” as we’ve blindly given it credit for being all these years?