The term “manscaping” tends to inspire a bit of “metrophobia” in most normal guys.
But hey…all we’re really talking about for the purposes of this blog post is what’s going to be MORE attractive to feminine women, not less so.
So there’s really no good reason to “fear the ‘scape”. Every man should give some normal, rational thought to it.
This all means that at the VERY LEAST you want to keep your “nether regions” trimmed. If it’s a jungle” down there, it discourages women from performing oral sex.
The big question though, of course, always comes down to whether or not to go for it and just shave yourself clean down there.
This isn’t for everyone, but if the idea intrigues you here’s what you’ll need to think about.
First of all, if you’re in ANY position to be at risk for sexually transmitted diseases then you’ve got to realize that shaving your pubic region–just like shaving your face–can easily cause open wounds…if even VERY tiny ones.
This, of course, dramatically increases susceptibility to contracting STDs. So at the very least, you really don’t want to shave your junk immediately prior to going out on a casual date you think might get pretty hot later.
That said, if you can reconcile the STD factor and get over the initial “weirdness” of thinking you look like a porn star and/or a newborn down there, the rewards of shaving your pubic region are significant.
Suffice it to say that EVERYTHING a woman can do for you sexually that’s wonderful feels AMAZINGLY BETTER when you’ve shaved.
You’ll be shocked by the difference and will probably never go back. And yes…women really do express a preference for clean-shaven male parts, especially after they know better.
The only caveat here is that I’d caution against shaving any further out than about an inch or so from the base of your penis. It’ll start to look weirder than you’d guess otherwise.
The best place to shave your pubic region is in the shower. They have special shave gels for the job at most supermarkets, and you might want to give one a try to see if it makes things easier for you.
Shaving your balls is likely to frustrate you at first, but don’t be afraid to pull at your scrotum as necessary to take care of things.
For what it’s worth, you’ll need to shave part way up your shaft as well. Nobody’s looking if you end up “tugging” there also in order to get the job done as cleanly and completely as possible. ‘Nuff said.
Don’t let it bug you if you don’t end up getting every single follicle, though…it’s close to impossible. I recommend shaving your scrotum two days in a row for that very reason, and then doing “upkeep” as necessary…probably about every 4-7 days or so.
Be sure to stay on it because stubble is a no-no. After a short while you’ll get the hang of doing maintenance down there, and it’ll become MUCH easier and less time consuming. The first time you do it is, obviously, the most challenging.
A frequent (and most excellent) side benefit is that the woman you’re seeing might just (surprise, surprise) follow your lead and shave her own pubic region clean–or better yet, let YOU do it. Now THAT can really be an outstanding way to create a romantic mood AND build trust at the same time.
“Shaved-on-shaved” sex is surrealistically amazing, and if you’ve got a monogamous partner I really do recommend giving it a try.
My bet is you’ll also like performing oral on her better that way too. The sensory experience is a flat-out superior one, and you don’t ever have to fish pubic hair out of your mouth. Nice.
P.S. This blog post is actually a follow-up to a newsletter on general “manscaping” that I sent my subscribers earlier. If you want to check that out, I made sure to post a link to it on our Facebook Page:
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