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The Power of Being Observant In Pickup

Scot McKay — Mon, 17 Nov 2008 06:44:57 +0000

Ok guys, around here it is mentioned a lot how a man can almost have what appears to be superpowers with a woman. Being observant is yet another one of those powers. I find it to be the most...

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MeetUp.com As A Dating Site?

Scot McKay — Fri, 07 Nov 2008 22:35:35 +0000

We get quite a number of e-mails from both men and women asking where in the world they can meet MOTOS (Members Of The Opposite Sex). Some don’t exactly live in thriving metropolises. Most...

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The Chick Whisperer BONUS–Stop Giving Your Power Away

Scot McKay — Thu, 30 Oct 2008 15:46:07 +0000

About a year ago I recorded a very special episode of The Chick Whisperer with none other than Brent from Absolute Power Dating and David DeAngelo “Advanced Mastery Series” fame. At the...

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Junior Is A Flirt

Scot McKay — Thu, 23 Oct 2008 06:14:29 +0000

Keep your infant daughters away from my kid. Actually, check that. Keep your pre-teen daughters away from him. Seriously, Scot, Jr. (aka “Micky Mac”) is a serious flirt. Already. At...

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Universal Conversation Skills: Talk To Anyone, Anytime, Anywhere

Scot McKay — Sun, 19 Oct 2008 17:30:50 +0000

For the longest time I was frustrated. I wanted people to take an interest in me. After all I thought I was interesting. I had just returned to the states after two years living abroad. I thought I...

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Let’s Hook Up And I’ll Do You

Scot McKay — Fri, 17 Oct 2008 13:47:03 +0000

I started surfing back in the 80’s. Part of what went along with that, for better or worse, was using a certain lingo unique to surfers (or allegedly so). Some called it...

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A Powerful Way To Lead A Woman

Scot McKay — Mon, 13 Oct 2008 03:51:30 +0000

What I’m going to share with you today is the kind of the elusive obvious that can totally make or break your interaction with the woman. If you frequently finish in the “just friends” zone with the...

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You Introverts Think You’ve Got It Tough?

Scot McKay — Sat, 11 Oct 2008 14:08:17 +0000

Hey brothers, first of all, apologies for neglecting my contributions to this wealth of knowledge. I have been busy trying to acquire my first property and moving out. Thanks for your responses to my...

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When It’s Time To Break Up

Scot McKay — Wed, 01 Oct 2008 07:39:16 +0000

Breakups, ending the relationship, moving on–the wild emotional roller coaster ride that follows or ensues during. It can be one of the toughest emotional deals to go through, or at least that...

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Paul Newman Was A “Big Four” Guy

Scot McKay — Sun, 28 Sep 2008 00:39:18 +0000

I just got home from a busy Saturday to find out that Paul Newman passed away. He was 83, and he had lived a full life. Let me be clear, though. He didn’t necessarily live a full live because...

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New Facebook Group: Get More Free Stuff

Scot McKay — Thu, 25 Sep 2008 11:38:31 +0000

So are you getting sick of me sending you free stuff yet? Didn’t think so. So with that in mind, Emily and I have created a Facebook group. The name? “Free Stuff From X & Y...

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Get The Deserve What You Want Toolbar!

Scot McKay — Tue, 23 Sep 2008 18:16:00 +0000

I’m sure some of y’all have the Google toolbar, or maybe the Alexa toolbar on your browsers. They’re a great way to get what you want from the Web as quickly and easily as...

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Who Says The Leading Man ISN’T About Pickup, After All?

Scot McKay — Sun, 21 Sep 2008 00:28:29 +0000

Okay, so you’ve been hearing me tell you about how The Leading Man is all about relationship management. And although I do share some secrets for establishing yourself as a relationship...

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Structured Authentic Game

Scot McKay — Fri, 19 Sep 2008 03:06:49 +0000

A few years ago when I was just starting on this journey to becoming a man who is successful with women, I studied a lot of material on the structure of “outer” game. As many people here would know,...

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Name Memorization And The Art Of Working the Room

Scot McKay — Wed, 17 Sep 2008 03:58:41 +0000

Before you read this post, I ask that you ready yourself to learn and apply what you’re about to read. When I first got into pickup this was my “working the room” game and it...

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The Leading Man Is Now Available Worldwide

Scot McKay — Sun, 14 Sep 2008 20:45:37 +0000

As of yesterday at noon Texas time, The Leading Man has now been released to the world. Unless you’ve been hiding under a rock, you already know that this is the world’s first complete...

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Your Phone Game Tip For The Day

Scot McKay — Sat, 13 Sep 2008 09:06:20 +0000

Once upon a time, there was a guy. Let’s call him Dan. He worked for a major courier company, delivering parcels on the same route just about every day. There was one particular business on...

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Why I Wake Up Excited In The Morning

Scot McKay — Tue, 09 Sep 2008 07:55:09 +0000

Having read the title of this post, I have a guess what you might be thinking. No, it’s not necessarily because Emily is in a frisky mood…again. At least that’s not what I’m...

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Thundercat’s BootyCast

Scot McKay — Sat, 06 Sep 2008 11:07:21 +0000

How’s it going everyone? Today I was Joseph “Thundercat” Matthews’ guest on his BootyCast podcast. Surprised? Well, don’t ever say I shy away from hardcore Seduction...

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The Chick Whisperer #24–Taking Care Of Business In The Bedroom

Scot McKay — Thu, 04 Sep 2008 07:53:37 +0000

That’s right, this episode is all about sexual wizardry. Make your woman want to purrrrr like the kitten she is. Meow. All of this is courtesy of my man Alex Allman, author of Revolutionary...

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X & Y On The Fly #39–Dealing With Exes

Scot McKay — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 10:00:06 +0000

Who wants “drama” with exes? Certainly not us. And unless you’re weird or something, neither do you. So that said, tune in to the latest episode of X & Y On The Fly and find...

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Tonight: X Factor Dating’s Singles Showcase

Scot McKay — Tue, 02 Sep 2008 19:46:06 +0000

I’m pleased to announce that I am part of the X Factor Dating’s Singles Showcase for September. As a matter of fact, out of 21 dating experts they are going to be featuring this month, I get the...

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Make Your Authentic Voice Heard

Scot McKay — Mon, 01 Sep 2008 18:04:02 +0000

As I was driving home a couple of days ago thinking about writing this post, I got a message from my friend that sounded a bit new-agey but perfectly summarised some of my ideas on how we can relate...

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Three Tips For Guys Who Are Starting Out

Scot McKay — Wed, 27 Aug 2008 02:03:10 +0000

In today’s post I’m going to try to break down some of the things that I did when I was starting out on this journey that I believe helped me out. First, I recommend getting some...

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The Leading Man: Web Site Is LIVE

Scot McKay — Sat, 23 Aug 2008 15:39:30 +0000

After pulling several “all nighters” this week, the all-new web site for The Leading Man has been launched. About a week ago, I let you in on some of the very basic details in this blog...

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Be a Social Leader in One Easy Step

Scot McKay — Fri, 22 Aug 2008 18:05:33 +0000

In my journey through pickup I’ve found this whole thing is more about learning social leadership than anything else. One thing we all have in common is we are leaders. If we weren’t...

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Five Ways To Get Women To Approach You

Scot McKay — Wed, 20 Aug 2008 18:30:29 +0000

Here’s a question I get all the time: “Hey Scot, how do I know when a woman is interested in me? And how can I get women to approach me first?” Okay, that’s actually two...

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The Top Ten Places On Earth To Take A Woman

Scot McKay — Sat, 16 Aug 2008 06:15:44 +0000

We’ve talked before about the importance of going on a “road trip” with someone you’ve met recently and think you might really like. I’m on record as seeing this as a...

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Relationship Management: The Leading Man

Scot McKay — Mon, 11 Aug 2008 21:28:16 +0000

There’s no shortage of pickup training. In fact, it seems that just about every dating guru out there is puzzling over how to find a new twist on teaching it. Meanwhile, there is a vast...

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Rejection And The Rules Of Approach [Part Two]

Scot McKay — Sat, 09 Aug 2008 00:38:33 +0000

As promised in Part One, let me give you an example from my Saturday night. One group was sitting awkwardly at the bar, in a big circle they made with a bunch of meathead looking guys to their right....

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Rejection And The Rules Of Approach [Part One]

Scot McKay — Thu, 07 Aug 2008 02:33:11 +0000

Two limiting beliefs come to mind for me in night game, and any time overall, really. These involve rejection and the so-called rules of approach. Too many times we wrap ourselves up in both of...

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