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Deserve What You Want And Never, Ever SettleThu, 17 May 2012 05:50:35 +0000http://wordpress.org/?v=2.3.3By: iblackpirate
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iblackpirateMon, 30 Jun 2008 00:48:11 +0000http://edumckaytion.com/blog/do-women-really-bail-out-of-relationships-with-guys-they-like/#comment-2153well... I know women take on these weird scenarios that do not make any sense in masculine perspective and thus complete miscomunication ocurrs... she says something like... it is your beer cold?... meaning that if the plumber came... and repair the fridge... or have y noticed my new hair do?... bizzarre shit... that she is THINKING on her own and has no impact to what is logically happening... so LOGICALLY women and men, can´t talk... they live purely from the heart... and men and men... understand each other cause nothing mean anything at all is direct and to the exactness of the words... so the equilibrium has to happen between water and oil... they dont mix... neither talk the other´s perspective... but then... if we want LOVE in our lives... we men I mean... we need to at least understand their complexity in the simple.... her language, the elusive obvious! ... and see the world as she sees it... but then there is the risk of philosophing and then this letter can be endless... as this sort of issue between the sexes can make lots of men EUNUCHS by force... and that it is devastating for men that could bring themselves to pure fear... and into depression... and suicide... or the desire to run away and leave and change situations... looking for the ideal banana... we are so afraid... that we need to keep moving... this is bizzarre.... life is a lot simpler... does not has to be any particular way other than hers... but in order to keep her on a tight leash... is to never be interested in her to HOLD ONTO... as a means of MARRIAGE or NEEEEEEDDDDDDDDYYYYYYYY. And that happens to all the men that are beyond attentive... and begin to FALL INLOVE... what is fall in love?... simply try to fulfill and emptiness inside them selves that claims to be accepted, and since you reflect yourself perfectly of this other you like due to that eye looking close and the passion that arises... then life seem BETTER with this other person than with anyone else... right?... the issue here is that takes away FREEDOM OF MOVEMENT... cause now there is another to consult what´s next or worry about... so the question is it worth it to share with another of your liking if there is the respect of the distance... but I know what you love... and you can avoid it on the manifest reality of the other... I am not that other... I am also a single traveler... that has girlfriends that last me 2 years... and then we split.... some others stay shorter periods of time... and accept the circumstances as they are b´cause is worth for them... and this worth has nothing to do with I, this I is merely a companion and friend coming along... she can´t put their hands on me and my space and keep me... I am unkeeplable... because I rather not travel along with needy fear to be left out... or forgetten... I am not a Nanny... dont pretend anyone to be that for I... I am a "John Doe" I am not her daddy, I am a Man, traveling this life alongside with everyone else... I dont think I´ll ever replicate not my dharma... I AM MOST interested in women that already have a FOCUS on her personal security... and then walk along with another in the same circumstances... NEEDY no ones need that... So... when women leave us is because we simply turned childish, and that is a big turn off for both sides... I rather like her to cuddle me, than I cuddle her... she needs to want it... and let her come to you... if you step towards her... and want to KEEP HER... mmmm you are in serious business and she is no longer seduced... she is looking at life from a Man to be kept... and another set of rules come along and you are no longer a seducer... you are a husband... and if she is not ready and do not want to go there because she was seen you as a seducer, but then you turned needy... you changed the game... the seducing game came suddenly to game over, and daddy came along... babies came along the mind... so there are subtleties over subtleties on women meaning .... freud could not answer the question... WHAT DO WOMEN WANT?... Live your life, stop caring if you ever again have sex... and stop worrying so much about the need to have a MATE in your life... FOCUS your attention or learn the rules... I am not yet a student of this page... dont have much of a clue what this people teach... but I felt to write... I am an anonymous person... posted on the net for everyone to see... atually I am writting this for my self... as I am the center of the entire story... I am celibate by force... simple because something is missing in my communications with them... when they are infront of me... I am a wreck... and come across as freaky... thus they get afraid... and leave my space because they perceive it... they are women... no matter what I think I could do ... there is something else happening in the inside that they READ LOUD in their perception... and I am not a possibility... game over!!!...well… I know women take on these weird scenarios that do not make any sense in masculine perspective and thus complete miscomunication ocurrs… she says something like… it is your beer cold?… meaning that if the plumber came… and repair the fridge… or have y noticed my new hair do?… bizzarre shit… that she is THINKING on her own and has no impact to what is logically happening… so LOGICALLY women and men, can´t talk… they live purely from the heart… and men and men… understand each other cause nothing mean anything at all is direct and to the exactness of the words… so the equilibrium has to happen between water and oil… they dont mix… neither talk the other´s perspective… but then… if we want LOVE in our lives… we men I mean… we need to at least understand their complexity in the simple…. her language, the elusive obvious! … and see the world as she sees it… but then there is the risk of philosophing and then this letter can be endless… as this sort of issue between the sexes can make lots of men EUNUCHS by force… and that it is devastating for men that could bring themselves to pure fear… and into depression… and suicide… or the desire to run away and leave and change situations… looking for the ideal banana… we are so afraid… that we need to keep moving… this is bizzarre…. life is a lot simpler… does not has to be any particular way other than hers… but in order to keep her on a tight leash… is to never be interested in her to HOLD ONTO… as a means of MARRIAGE or NEEEEEEDDDDDDDDYYYYYYYY. And that happens to all the men that are beyond attentive… and begin to FALL INLOVE… what is fall in love?… simply try to fulfill and emptiness inside them selves that claims to be accepted, and since you reflect yourself perfectly of this other you like due to that eye looking close and the passion that arises… then life seem BETTER with this other person than with anyone else… right?… the issue here is that takes away FREEDOM OF MOVEMENT… cause now there is another to consult what´s next or worry about… so the question is it worth it to share with another of your liking if there is the respect of the distance… but I know what you love… and you can avoid it on the manifest reality of the other… I am not that other… I am also a single traveler… that has girlfriends that last me 2 years… and then we split…. some others stay shorter periods of time… and accept the circumstances as they are b´cause is worth for them… and this worth has nothing to do with I, this I is merely a companion and friend coming along… she can´t put their hands on me and my space and keep me… I am unkeeplable… because I rather not travel along with needy fear to be left out… or forgetten… I am not a Nanny… dont pretend anyone to be that for I… I am a “John Doe” I am not her daddy, I am a Man, traveling this life alongside with everyone else… I dont think I´ll ever replicate not my dharma… I AM MOST interested in women that already have a FOCUS on her personal security… and then walk along with another in the same circumstances… NEEDY no ones need that… So… when women leave us is because we simply turned childish, and that is a big turn off for both sides… I rather like her to cuddle me, than I cuddle her… she needs to want it… and let her come to you… if you step towards her… and want to KEEP HER… mmmm you are in serious business and she is no longer seduced… she is looking at life from a Man to be kept… and another set of rules come along and you are no longer a seducer… you are a husband… and if she is not ready and do not want to go there because she was seen you as a seducer, but then you turned needy… you changed the game… the seducing game came suddenly to game over, and daddy came along… babies came along the mind… so there are subtleties over subtleties on women meaning …. freud could not answer the question… WHAT DO WOMEN WANT?… Live your life, stop caring if you ever again have sex… and stop worrying so much about the need to have a MATE in your life… FOCUS your attention or learn the rules… I am not yet a student of this page… dont have much of a clue what this people teach… but I felt to write… I am an anonymous person… posted on the net for everyone to see… atually I am writting this for my self… as I am the center of the entire story… I am celibate by force… simple because something is missing in my communications with them… when they are infront of me… I am a wreck… and come across as freaky… thus they get afraid… and leave my space because they perceive it… they are women… no matter what I think I could do … there is something else happening in the inside that they READ LOUD in their perception… and I am not a possibility… game over!!!…
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Picking up womenThu, 24 Apr 2008 06:34:41 +0000http://edumckaytion.com/blog/do-women-really-bail-out-of-relationships-with-guys-they-like/#comment-910Its really true that women may pull away for the slightest reasons. I really enjoyed this post.Its really true that women may pull away for the slightest reasons. I really enjoyed this post.
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