The Man’s Approach Is Now Available

Approach high quality women, start conversations with them and make plans to see them again.  The Man’s Approach from Scot McKay and X & Y CommunicationsAsk any guy what his #1 challenge is when it comes to women and he’ll tell you: It’s gathering up the courage to actually approach them and start conversations with them.

Indeed, the issue is nothing short of pandemic worldwide, attested to by the ever-increasing number of “pickup artist” training courses available out there.

But wait a minute. What if a particular guy isn’t exactly so interested in becoming a “pickup artist”? What if he’s a pretty “normal” guy who’d simply like to have a great girlfriend, and perhaps even a terrific wife someday?

The truth is if you’re that guy, you’re still going to have to actually meet the woman of your dreams before you can build a relationship with her, right?

Given the obvious truth of that statement, it’s altogether remarkable that there has never been a comprehensive plan on how to meet high quality women in particular, start conversations with them and make plans to see them again.

Until now, that is…

 
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Why The New Disney/Pixar Movie “Up” Rocks

Carl And Ellie RuleToday I finally got around to seeing Up, the latest Disney/Pixar release.

I have to admit that I knew next to nothing about the flick prior to actually checking it out, except that: 1) It was Pixar, and therefore a “must see”, and… 2) …about two dozen people have called or e-mailed me telling me that Emily and I needed to see it.

Sometimes it’s sort of fun to go into a movie not at all knowing what to expect. This was one such occasion.

All it took was the first fifteen minutes actually. By then I was completely and utterly emotionally exhausted.

Without giving away the entire plot, there is about a five or eight minute segment there at the beginning that chronicles a lifelong relationship between a man and a woman (Carl and Ellie) as it should be.

Now if you’ve seen any Pixar production before, you are already well acquainted with their fanatical attention to detail. The rat-trap pizza delivery truck in Toy Story with “YO” on the tailgate comes to mind, as does Sally The Porsche’s insanely accurate low-RPM engine note in Cars. Only a 911’s legendary flat-six sounds like that. And as women go, she’s all 911.

And without giving too much away, let’s just say Pixar continued the tradition with great dignity in Up…particularly in that first segment.

It’s far from a comprehensive treatise on relationship management, or anything. But whoever wrote the screenplay and whoever animated it had clearly been in love before.

What’s more, they must have been in love and been in a healthy long-term relationship before.

Every little nuance jam-packed in that brief stretch of film is mind-blowing. It’s a rapid-fire animated depiction of how two people who genuinely love and respect each other live their lives together.

If you have any emotion in your soul whatsover, you are left breathless afterward. Emily was in tears, clutching my hand firmly as she sobbed. And if you know her, that’s not typically her style.

I’ll admit I was fighting back the water works myself. Pixar just flat-out gets it.

Simply put, any man who believes that spending one’s life with one great woman is for sissies might want to see this flick, unless he’s dead-set against changing his opinion. Then he needs to make it a point to skip it.

And furthermore, any wannabe PUA types out there who think the ultimate goal for their relationships with women is to notch their bedposts as many times as possible might want to avoid seeing Up also…lest they come face-to-face with what depth looks like in a long-term relationship.

But if you are in a relationship that matters to you–or aspire to–do yourself a favor and go see Up. Walk out after fifteen minutes for all I care. But see the beginning.

Now granted, if you’ve seen the movie Pixar indeed plays a dirty little trick on you over the course of the rest of the movie. At the beginning sequence you’re supposed to believe that something was actually missing from Carl and Ellie’s life together…and that the opportunity to fulfill on it was tragically taken.

Yes, I fell for it. I silently ruminated upon the fact that I’m glad that Emily and I have made it a point to go on “adventures” together, particularly insofar as traveling and seeing the world.

But at the end, Pixar takes the overall message to a whole new level by demonstrating that love in itself is the adventure. It’s what life is all about. And it’s not to be missed.

And neither is Up…if you think you’re man enough to handle it.

Be Good,

Scot McKay

 

 








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The Master Plan Is LIVE

Become The High Quality Man Women Crave With The Master PlanToday is the day everything changes.

Until now, it has been implied to us as guys that we needed to “soften our demeanor”, “be nice” and otherwise fall in line with modern “feminized” culture.

The problem? Although we’ve been encouraged to think masculinity is somehow a bad thing, nobody ever gave us a roadmap for what to replace it with.

Obviously, the answer isn’t to be more feminine. Nothing lands a guy in the “Just Be Friends” zone more quickly.

So are we supposed to just “turn off” the masculinity…cold turkey? Well…if you’re neuter, you pretty much have zero chance at attracting anyone sexually.

Maybe the solution is a lot more simple.: There really isn’t anything wrong with masculinity to begin with.

That’s what I personally believe. In fact, I’d go so far as to say that most women want their men back.

 

 

 

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The Master Plan — You Already Are A “Natural”

Become The High Quality Man Women Crave With The Master PlanLately there’s been lots of talk about “natural game”…as if all we need to do is emulate a guy who we see as a “natural”, and we’ll somehow become more attractive to women.

Now sure, having some guys who are great with women show you the ropes isn’t such a bad idea. But do we really need to copy someone else’s entire persona in order to successfully attract the kind of women we want?

Well, a lot of us as guys have been suspecting something all along: We are all “naturals”. By being born male, we’re supposed to be attractive to women by our very nature. Simply put, you were BORN to attract women.

 

 

 

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The Leading Man Is Now Available Worldwide

As of yesterday at noon Texas time, The Leading Man has now been released to the world.

Unless you’ve been hiding under a rock, you already know that this is the world’s first complete system for relationship management. If you’re on anyone else’s mailing list besides mine and/or read any one else’s blog you’ve probably heard about it at least once elsewhere.

What you may not know, however, is that I made major “surprise” additions to The Leading Man just in time for its official worldwide launch.

Granted, there was already over ten hours of detailed instruction on how to wear the pants without losing your shirt, how to quarterback your relationships instead of feeling like the waterboy, and how to lock down the “revolving door” of women in your life.

But now I’ve also included a special bonus video featuring X & Y Communications coach Jim Dalton and I talking about how to select an amazing woman while eliminating the wrong ones. This is your first chance to see one of our new coaches in action.

Plus, I’ve added a killer new “round table” discussion. In it, you’re going to get women’s opinions on what exactly
what they want from a man in terms of effective relationship management I invited none other than Kim from Pickup Podcast, Liz from Inner Game Magazine and–of course–Emily from right here at X & Y Communications. In other words, YES…you’re going to find out whether or not what I teach in The Leading Man is on the money or not…even in our own household.

Then, just to make sure I packed as much value as I knew how to into this thing, I added four more bonuses…each of which could easily stand alone as a separate product (in fact, a couple of them have before).

I have to tell you, response has been tremendous thus far, about 26 hours into the launch. There is clearly a demand for this sort of teaching, so it is my honor and privilege to share with you absolutely everything I’ve got on how to build solid relationships with high-quality women.

So, go ahead and check out the four free videos I have on the site for you, and also be sure to join the special mailing list I have set up for The Leading Man while you’re there. I’m giving away a mountain of free bonus gifts…just for signing up.

And YES…the price for this system is going to be going up to $147 from it’s $97 release price sometime this coming week. Just in case you’re still on the fence about whether or not to pull the trigger on this special launch week offer, consider this e-mail from Georgiy in “parts unknown”:

hey man,

you’re charging TOO LITTLE for your program with all the hype you’ve created.

I observed your whole launch process, and with all the buzz you have created the price you charge should be at least twice as much. I was hoping to see 297!!!

I’m telling you this because I’ve been a student of jeff walker and frank kern for a long time and that is just my humble opinion 😉

-Georgiy

Hmm…I guess Jeff Walker and Frank Kern’s loss is your gain. By the way, I told Georgiy that he was more than welcome to buy three copies of The Leading Man if it made him feel better.

Nah, I just want to make The Leading Man more accessible to everyone who wants stronger, more satisfying long-term relationships with great women. In fact, you can even break the $97 special launch week price into three monthly pieces if you’d like to.


So take a look, and let me know what you think if you get in on it. I’ve put my heart and soul into The Leading Man, and I think you’ll enjoy it.

Be Good,

Scot

P.S. By the way, I am absolutely, positively going to be expanding this program as I have Virtuosity. The first addition is already planned…

 

 








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What New-School Women’s Birth Control Means To Men

Paris All Patched Up.  Nice.I think it’s time someone talked about women’s birth control from a man’s perspective.

Yeah, yeah. I understand that what a “woman does with her own body is her own business”, etc. But that doesn’t mean we as guys aren’t going to have opinions about it.

After all, by definition, we’re affected. At least somehow.

And never before have we been MORE affected than these days, when women’s birth control has become as much of a “fashion accessory” or something as a practical solution to preventing pregnancy.

So here it is. We have “ribbed” condoms, flavored ones and so forth…which only goes to show that contraceptives are everyone’s business after all.

So if women’s interests can potentially be met by male contraception, it’s time for us guys to have a voice.

1) The Patch

The birth control patch apparently works well, and fast. But this is not meant to be a dry, clinical piece on objective functionality and medical pros/cons. So let’s get to the point.

The point is that I don’t want to see a big ol’ sloppy Band-Aid ™ on her tail section. And no apologies either. A good, well-placed whack at key moments just doesn’t quite resonate the same way (literally or figuratively) when that thing’s stuck there. And since most women and men are right-handed, this just underscores my point. If that last sentence didn’t make sense, think about it until it does.

So ladies, if you must use The Patch, I fully get you’re trying to make it discreet so you don’t look like you’re healing from road rash or something. But it can’t go back there either.

And since I’m at a loss for recommending a better place for it myself, I feel your dilemma. Especially since even if you decide to just yank the patch off and chuck it there tends to be a nasty mark for a while. It’s as if some mutant square-faced leech has been macking away at you. Nice.

2) The Ring

Formally branded “NuvaRing“, nothing quite takes the “ce” out of “contraception” like this contraption.

Yes, it works, and it’s probably a major improvement upon diaphragms and IUDs.

But you don’t think it adversely affects your sex life, guess again.

First and foremost, don’t listen to your gynecologist, who will probably tell you that “you won’t be able to feel it, and neither will your guy.”

Whatever.

That theory goes out the window the first time “your guy” pulls out wearing the thing. Bulls eye.

Me: “It looks I won the ‘ring toss’ game. Where’s my big teddy bear?”

Her: “[gasp] OMG…that wasn’t supposed to be possible! LOL Here, let me put it on the nightstand/dashboard/kitchen counter/shower head”

Unfortunately, you only get three hours worth of a “time out” from that thing before the whole transaction is null and void and all bets are off. Ouch.

Speaking of “ouch”, if you just leave The Ring in and deal with carnival games, there’s always the off chance that Louis Leakey is going to find it right at an inopportune moment…sideways. Let’s just say that’s a mood killer.

And we won’t talk about the likelihood of finding “temporarily” removed rings on the carpet by the bed with lint all stuck to them. Uh oh.

 

So what’s a woman to do? Sure that’s your business, ladies. Then again, we could wear latex condoms even if you’re viciously allergic, couldn’t we?

But we won’t. And we’d appreciate if you’d stick to the pill if at all possible, please.

And by the way guys, don’t be talked out of wrapping that rascal, either by her or by yourself.

And if she says, “I’m on the pill so you don’t have to pull out”, there’s no proof like solid evidence in the form of a pill case with the “numbers matching”.

At least you have tangible evidence with rings and patches, huh? Well, that’s at least one in the “plus” column for them. Draw your own conclusions.

Be Good,

Scot McKay

P.S. Emily (who is ring and patch free, thank you) and I are off to Mexico for a week of vacation. Don’t complain. We’ll be WAY less cranky when we get back all refreshed. Everything will run “business as usual” at the X & Y Communications Shop however, thanks to the magic of the Internets.

 
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One Dozen Top Dating And Seduction Resources For Men On The Net

Recently I did a video featuring all the cool resources on the Internet I could find for men when it comes to dating and seduction.

For fun, I’ve decided to list the twelve best (outside of the wide world of X & Y Communications, naturally…right?). I couldn’t come up with a clear winner so I’ve listed them in reverse alphabetical order:

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Thundercat’s Seduction Lair

Joseph Matthew’s wildly popular portal for all things Seduction Community is often controversial, but always the source of an interesting read. With as much traffic his site gets, you’re always guaranteed something fresh and provocative. It’s the “gloves off” approach, all the way, which here in Texas is never a bad thing.

BTW, I’m still trying to figure out how I get traffic from TSL every other minute even though I can’t find any of my links there anywhere. I’ve been meaning to give Thundy a call and ask him about that.


SoSuave

OK, granted. There are some BITTER dudes on Allen’s forums. But that’s one popular message board nonetheless. What truly sets So Suave apart, however, is the completely novel way that articles are posted on the front page. Brief, focused material gets the nod, and that nod is often given to people who are normal, every day guys who contributed their coolest bits of advice.

And once your material makes that front page, it’s highlighted for literally weeks. Allen chooses the best of the best, and adds only one or two articles to the rotation every week.


Seduction Chronicles

This is an exceptionally well thought out site that is pleasing not only to the eye but to the intellect. Donovan somehow manages to incorporate a literally staggering amount of high-quality content while keeping a clean interface. The quantity and the quality of interaction on this site is unparalleled. Definitely a must-read.


Sargenation

What the guys at Sargenation have done is set up a blog-aggregation site that essentially acts as a clearinghouse for every major blog on dating and seduction out there. Visitors can log in and vote their favorites to the top of the list, while partaking of tons of additional content. Very user-friendly and well stocked on a regular basis with high-quality reads.

 
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Finally Finished: Deserve What You Want…The Audiobook

The Audiobook Version Of Deserve What You WantAt long last, the audiobook version of Deserve What You Want is here.

Someone said, “Yeah well, it’s about time.” And I heard you.

Well, I have to tell you, it’s a MASSIVE job to pull off an audiobook. I totally underestimated the task at hand. If you’ve ever tried to talk for five hours without tripping over a single word, let alone missing the required inflection to get the exact point across, then you’ve pretty much got the mental picture.

I started seeing things on the screen that weren’t there after a while. And then came the realization that the human voice can only go so long with out a break, and then it’s…um…so long.

But you don’t have to concern yourself with any of that.

I’ve got your back this time, and the finished product is free of gaffes yet just “human” enough to be charming. I’m sure you wouldn’t have it any other way, right?

What the deal is here, is that I’ve gone ahead and rolled the audiobook version into the same download areas that feature the PDF (i.e. “written e-book”) version. So if you already own Deserve What You Want, guess what…head to the Member’s Area page and you’ll soon find out you now own the audiobook version as well.

See, I told you I had your back.

All the rest of y’all can getchasum too. If you are all about putting the past behind, discovering what you want from MOTOS (Members Of The Opposite Sex), deserving what you want and then making it happen, then this book is all about you.

The men’s version is here:

http://www.deservewhatyouwant.com/men

The women’s version is here:

http://www.deservewhatyouwant.com/women

OK, just to be clear, NO…I only read the book once, and I used the “co-ed” version of the book for that. That page actually still exists, so if you want the “numbers to match”, go here. But if you get the men’s or women’s version, do know that the audiobook will differ slightly.

Next time I’ll really post part two of “The Car You Drive”. I’m just a bit excited about having finally completed this project at last…

Be Good,

Scot McKay

P.S. Call your mother today. And if you are dating a single mom, do something cool for her.

 

 


 








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Relationship Mastery 101 — And Now For Something Completely Different

Lance Taylor's Relationship Mastery 101 Was A Blast To Be A Part Of.The old Monty Python classic line holds true here.

When Lance Taylor called me last year telling me what he had in mind for a project, it took me a while before I was able to completely grasp what he was saying.

As he described his vision, I could’ve sworn he was actually thinking about getting a dogpile of pickup artists together and having them talk about how to succeed in actual relationships with women.

At first I thought this was crazy talk. But then again, I was one of the first guys he called, so I was happy to listen since there must have been some reason he picked up the phone and dialed my digits.

And as it turned out, I wasn’t imagining things after all. Lance was going to compile a series featuring some world-class seduction experts. And they were going to talk about long-term success with women.

Now I’m not a “pickup artist”, per se. But I’ll tell you, the concept was fascinating. After talking to Lance, I was absolutely thrilled to submit some of my very best material to him for that project of his.

fast forward six or eight months later, and I have to tell you…it’s STILL fascinating.

Only now, there’s a finished product.

Lance has dubbed it Relationship Mastery 101, and it’s a barnburner.

 
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Brad Howard’s Adonis Effect — Every REAL Advantage Is A GOOD Advantage

Brad Howard's New

Have you seen this yet? There’s some buzz about it so you may have.

Brad “Angel Eyes” Howard… author of more books and articles than anyone I know (except me)… including the popular Fat Loss Black Book… just sent me a special copy of his new collaboration called “The Adonis Effect“.

I have to admit it took me a bit of time to grasp the true “gravitas” of this particular deal. But basically, that’s only because I’m one of three options: 1) Too dense to “get it”, 2) Too dense LITERALLY to get it (let’s just say I could use this program), and/or… 3) The Adonis Effect is so different than anything else out there that you have to think outside the proverbial box to get your head around this piggy.

I wish I had more time to get more into this but needless to say… I’ll be putting this to good use myself.

So today was the big launch, and these guys are only guaranteeing 500 copies of the fast action version of The Adonis Effect.

After that, I’m told that they’ll likely pull the “Explode” bonus… which is something that you definitely want to get
your hands on.
Brad Howard's
By the way, I threw my own hat into the ring in the form of a special bonus audio program on Real Seduction that I did with Joseph “Thundercat” Matthews. I’ve been selling that as a standalone product lately, but you can get it as part of the killer Adonis Effect package.

If you want to reserve your copy (and I HIGHLY recommend you
do!), then you need to click here right now.

Seriously, this will provide you with a solid foundation in
life and could be the best thing that you do for yourself
in 2008 (if you got VIRTUOSITY in 2007, that is).

And here’s one last thing.

I hear that the current reservation list is well over the 13,000+ point so you’ll want to make sure you act fast to secure your copy and get the red hot bonuses.

Be Good,

Scot McKay
 








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Emily’s New Click With Him Program Launches TOMORROW

Product Image For Click With HimThat’s right, after literally MONTHS in the making, Emily’s new flagship program for women Click With Him is ready for release.

It will be five months to the day since VIRTUOSITY was released to men everywhere who refuse to “settle” for any woman who isn’t of the highest echelon on Earth.

Now, it’s finally time for the ladies out there to have access to the same type of vision.

Having been the “techie” for Emily’s new program (as well as a “featured guest” and occasional interviewer) I have to tell you…she’s really outdone herself.

Yeah, I realize that’s a biased opinion. But after all, I did marry her for all the right reasons, I must say. You know: “Deserve What You Want” and “Never, Ever Settle“.

So yes, absolutely. This chick knows what she’s talking about. Not only is she presenting a full-on deep dive into how to be the kind of amazing women guys can’t wait to commit to (and can I get an “amen” from the brethren to making sure there’s more of them out there?), she’s unveiling literally everything she knows about how to succeed online as a woman. Continue reading “Emily’s New Click With Him Program Launches TOMORROW”

Sick Of The Games And Manipulation? Here’s The Cure.

Power Social Skills From Carlos XumaIt’s no secret that Carlos Xuma and I think alike on a lot of things. He and I have become frequent collaborators and good friends.

If you are in on VIRTUOSITY, then you already know that Carlos joined me as a co-instructor for a killer session on “Games People Play”, where we spent an epic-length session detailing ways people manipulate and “play games” with each other in relationships.

AND…if you have experienced that audio program, you also know that Carlos announced to the world on it that his next CD Series was going to be on social games…and it would likely be his magnum opus.

Well, just this week Carlos made good on that promise by releasing Power Social Skills. Having taken the full tour of what he’s offering here, I’m pretty much convinced that he has lived in a cave for the last five months getting this absolutely perfect (well…between martial arts classes and some quality time with the ladies here and there, I’m sure).

Now I’ve always had full trust in Carlos’ work, having enjoyed it even before I kissed the IT world “buh-bye” forever to do what I do today. But what he has unleashed here is completely different. And even as the guy who has concocted something as
rambunctiously content-rich as VIRTUOSITY, I’ll be the first to step up and say that this has to be one of the most value-packed and overwhelmingly beneficial programs for men I’ve ever seen.

What’s more, it covers one of the most critical yet most overlooked areas when it comes to being successful with women.

Seriously, you can attract all the hotties you want. But if you repeatedly fall prey to an undercurrent of “games” and flat-out manipulation your life will still be M-I-S-E-R-A-B-L-E. You didn’t really need me to remind you of that though, did you? After all, how many online profiles have you ever seen that clearly state “No Games”? That’s because being with someone who plays them sucks.

The problem, though, is that nobody really seems to be able to define what “games” are, really.

OK, so here it is. Take a look at what Carlos has going on and you’ll quickly recognize how dramatic the benefits of getting in on it will be. I mean, he’s breaking down one hundred thirty-two different kinds of social games and brands of manipulation. Are you kidding me? Well, it’s all there in black and white (or black and yellow) on his web-site. Get that level of knowledge and wisdom down, gentlemen, and you’ll pretty much own your own private skillset of super powers.

So do you get the idea that I am impressed by this program? My guess is that you will be too…but you have to take a peek for yourself to know for sure:

Power Social Skills

Next time I’ll be back with a post on a topic that is a bit edgier than what you are used to from me…get ready. Until then…

Be Good,

Scot
 








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