Structured Authentic Game
A few years ago when I was just starting on this journey to becoming a man who is successful with women, I studied a lot of material on the structure of “outer” game. As many people here would know, a lot of various seduction-related sources agree on the general structure of the game. This can […]
Thundercat’s BootyCast
How’s it going everyone?
Today I was Joseph “Thundercat” Matthews’ guest on his BootyCast podcast. Surprised? Well, don’t ever say I shy away from hardcore Seduction Community stuff because this is the real deal.
I’ll tell you what, Thundy’s blog readers are about as tough an audience as I’ve seen out there. We talked […]
Three Tips For Guys Who Are Starting Out
In today’s post I’m going to try to break down some of the things that I did when I was starting out on this journey that I believe helped me out.
First, I recommend getting some friends/wingmen who are also along this journey.
I met 4 guys early on after I joined a forum. These guys […]
Five Ways To Get Women To Approach You
Here’s a question I get all the time: “Hey Scot, how do I know when a woman is interested in me? And how can I get women to approach me first?”
Okay, that’s actually two questions. But you get the point.
Well, we all know that women are typically subtle creatures. They aren’t […]
Rejection And The Rules Of Approach [Part Two]
As promised in Part One, let me give you an example from my Saturday night.
One group was sitting awkwardly at the bar, in a big circle they made with a bunch of meathead looking guys to their right. I could not tell if they were friends or not.
One other girl looked completely miserable, […]
Rejection And The Rules Of Approach [Part One]
Two limiting beliefs come to mind for me in night game, and any time overall, really.
These involve rejection and the so-called rules of approach. Too many times we wrap ourselves up in both of these things with certain stigmas and beliefs and end up adding way too much to the whole thing. […]
How To Deserve What You Want By Being Yourself
The concept of deserving what you want is the fundamental one in this community. But let me ask you a question. How do you understand this concept?
See, some time ago I caught myself thinking that I constantly worked on developing myself in order to deserve great women in my life. Like an athlete preparing […]
Train Game
Many guys spend way too many hours every year catching public transport, trains, buses, subways, ferries, etc. I used to have a 45 minute train trip every day to get to work, and 45 minutes on the train getting home.
That’s a lot of time.
On many of my trips I would […]
A Pickup Line Is No Longer A Pickup Line If SHE Started It
Lately I’ve been coaching more guys on how to succeed at online dating than ever before, and time and again I encounter something that amazes me.
I think we could all agree that using cheesy pickup lines are decidedly not the best strategy when it comes to approaching women. In fact, they’ve kind of become […]
Why Cold Approaches Are So Last Century
“Day game is my domain” he told me as we sat down for some lunch. My friend was known in our circle as a day game purist, with a style much different from mine.
He seemed to have an “on/off” switch.
Today, he planned to flip his “on” switch and had set aside […]






















