A Dating Coach’s Take On Why Mass Shootings Happen

  I don’t consider myself to be a world expert in sociology, abnormal psychology or criminal justice. Nor am I sworn to the political right or left. Given the conversation at hand, all of that might be an advantage in my case. At the very least, I have no problem “opening a can” on the […]

Asian Women Vs. Beer Men And Traffic Lights

  It’s already an established fact that I have this thing for Asian flight attendants. And it’s not even like I prefer Asian women in particular. It’s just that the flight attendants over there tend to be more feminine, more graceful and—best of all—almost obsequious in their pleasure to serve. It all makes for a […]

12 Things Some Guys Do, Mistakenly Thinking They’re Cool

  Let’s have some fun today. Recently I got into a discussion with a few friends—some female, no less—on the subject of what guys who decidedly don’t “get it” are like. Essentially, it quickly became a referendum on coolness, particularly in the eyes of women. As you might imagine it turned out to be a […]

7 Bad-To-The-Bone Skills That Women Love

  I’m not sure what it is lately, but I’ve been getting more than my fair share of e-mails from guys saying something to the effect of this: “But Scot, I’m incredibly useless/boring/average and there’s nothing about me that a woman would be attracted to, especially compared to other guys out there.” My knee-jerk reaction […]

Seducing Wild Alaska: The Truth About Male/Female Ratios Up There

  We’ve been in Alaska for the past two weeks. For real. In fact, we just got back two nights ago and we’ve pretty much been catching up on sleep since. Now, you’ve probably noticed that like one out of four shows on the Discovery or National Geographic channels have something to do with Alaska. […]

Do You Really Have A “Porn Problem”?

  What I’m about to share with you comes after months of consideration, countless conversations with real guys everywhere and yes…a final decision that despite how controversial my thoughts are going to be to some, this post really NEEDS to be written. Here’s the thing. I get a lot of messages from guys on the […]

7 Clues That You’re Being Too Picky

  If you’ve been reading this blog and/or my newsletters for some time, you already know how much I tend to harp on “settling”. Essentially, I firmly believe that we shouldn’t allow ourselves to get into a long-term relationship with ANYONE who isn’t really who we want. That’s all well and good. But a couple […]

8 Signs Your Girlfriend Doesn’t Respect You Enough

  If the subject line of this post grabbed your attention, it’s probably because you’ve been there before. You were crazy about a particular woman, and what do you know? She actually went out with you. What’s more, she actually became your girlfriend. Maybe she was even as hot for you as you were for […]

The No-Nonsense, Non-“Metro” Guide To “Manscaping” Your Nether Regions

Letter From A Reader: Hugging, Holding Hands, And That’s It [Video]

Recently I received an e-mail from Matt, who has been hanging out with a woman who seems interested in hugging and holding hands…but not a whole lot more than that, if anything. Apparently, based on the letters I receive, this is a problem that lots of guys face at one point or another. So what […]

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